Sex Toy Review: Liberator Talea Spreader Bar

You'll be fired up after reading this sultry review of the Liberator Talea Spreader Bar.

"Strip," I commanded. I moved to set up the Throe blanket, my second Liberator sex gadget, and saw their hands flash to their buttons as I drew the covers back on the bed. Probably 75% of the time we play, we use it. I turned up the temperature. After that, I remove their ankle cuffs rather than the neoprene ones included with the spreader bar's cushion. I push them back onto the bed to fasten the handcuffs around their ankles after they have taken off their clothes.

The store-bought and company-manufactured versions are frequently considerably easier to use and far more pleasant, but you can DIY most sex toys using a variety of different techniques. For instance, a cane or any other long stick can be used as a spreader bar. A plastic cane I purchased as a teenager to go with a Dracula Halloween costume served as my first spreader bar. I'd use rope to wrap it around someone's ankles, which was not very skillful, elegant, or discreet, but it worked well. I therefore didn't do it frequently. I'd rather bind someone's legs together with the footboard of my bed.

My genderqueer boy uses the pronouns they/them or he/him. I adore the transitional area they inhabit. Though our genders express themselves significantly differently, they are similar to mine. Even without clothes, my boy's broad shoulders and slender hips still give him a boyish appearance. At my wish, they remain fully shaven. I ask them to do a lot of things. Spreader bars, for example, usually get in the way because they will just keep their legs open if I instruct them to.

In some situations, applying more force and restriction is helpful for them to strive against.

Similar to beatings.

Until lately, I never really used sex furniture for personal purposes. The additional support and boost are very beneficial as I age because my hips and knees aren't as supple as they once were.

I have a purple spreader bar as well. It has eyelets on both ends and is long. It is challenging to secure someone to it because they are not immobilized and have too much space to move. Perhaps I need a bar that already has the real cuffs on it. Maybe I need one that resembles Lee's collar and over-the-shoulder spreader bar from The Secretary. I'll put that on my want list for sex toys.

However, Liberator's Talea Spreader Bar is unique in that it combines spreader bars with sex furniture. More support is provided than would be obtained simply by utilizing a cushion. Also, it's cozier than harsh.

They are writhing and sucking on a dick-shaped gag while facing down. Their hands are free, and they curl them up and clutch them beneath their bodies for self-comfort. The cushioned spreader holds their legs open, and I'm kneeling between them, with my butt on top of the spreader and my feet beneath it. Instead of squeezing my ankles, the rounded shape supports them. My weight holds it down, which also holds their legs down.

They continue to wriggle. I chose three of our most cruel toys: a harsh flat leather paddle, a handcrafted cane from a blackberry bramble, and a rug beater paddle. That specific shade of purple that I know turns into a rainbow before it disappears is what I want on their thighs and ass. I'm going over each toy individually. My weight on the spreader between their legs is holding them pinned while that cute boy twists and rolls their hips. It's fulfilling. To keep my ass and ankles locked, I force them together as I feel the deep cackling joy in my stomach. To lay my weight on their back and press my hips against theirs, I move my weight forward. I snarl into their ears, telling them to calm down since they are mine and cannot go. We play these kinds of games.

When it comes to kink play and sex, leather is more important to my boy and me than most other materials. Other natural materials, including wood or cotton, if not leather. Things that were once alive appeal to me. In my opinion, they can still transmit energy. They are a more effective way for me to express what I want my body to do during intercourse. Vinyl, nylon, and plastic no longer feel as attached to me. However, those options are superior for cleanup.

I mainly like metal snap hooks over plastic connectors because I'm concerned about their durability. But thus far, they have shown themselves to be strong and dependable. Using my leather cuffs and connectors to the spreader bar is not too difficult.

Although it keeps their legs wider open, they can close them precisely. They struggle to escape my devices, but their range of motion is limited to a few inches with this spreader bar attached.

We are both agitated when the beating eventually stops. They raise their legs and pull me in, rocking us together and pulling against me with the padded bar. The Talea hasn't been employed in nearly enough roles. We'll have to give it another go.