If you're unfamiliar with anal play, you may be wondering, "What?!," while you read this article. "Why would I want to elongate my posterior? We are aware of you. However, anal stretching isn't quite as terrible as it sounds, and it's actually an important part of anal training.
Anything that progressively extends the anus and enables you to insert toys—or a penis—that you were previously unable to comfortably take is technically considered anal stretching. Thus, anal stretching is accessible to even the most inexperienced users; progressing from a single finger to several fingers is worthwhile!
But in the world of kinky sex, "anal stretching" usually refers to training to handle huge toys with diameters greater than 2.5 inches, as well as stretching beyond what is necessary for anal intercourse with an ordinary penis. Extreme anal stretching is possible, such as anal fisting and inserting very big objects, but anal stretching can also simply involve enjoying the sensation of gently (and carefully!) training the butt.
That being stated, the following is the definitive manual for beginners on anal stretching:
How to Anal Stretch
It's quite easy to begin anal stretching. All you really need is a good amount of lubricant, body-safe sex toys, patience, and time.
Most importantly, do not, under any circumstances, pick up a tube of "Anal Ease" or any other kind of anal numbing cream.
You're missing out on the pleasure of stretching when everything is numb, as well as any possible warning signals. You've gone much beyond what your body can handle and need to take it very easy if the pain is so great that you need to use numbing creams.
Even while I'd never advise using anal numbing cream during any kind of sexual activity, it's particularly risky when anal stretching is involved—a kink in which you're deliberately attempting to exceed your body's limitations. For most bodies, anal play shouldn't be painful. If so, pause to determine why!
The only time you should consider using a numbing cream is if, following an intense session, you have an aching b-hole and need some relief. Even still, going with a cool washcloth instead of a chemical cream is a safer option.
Are you prepared to give anal training a try now? A virtual clap of encouragement! The actions to take are as follows:
Get ready to perform anal stretches.
Anal stretching preparation requires a whole mind-body effort. This is what you ought to collect:
In the mind:
A significant amount of time lost—when you initially start, at least 45 to an hour.
patience and forgiveness for oneself. If you attempt to move too quickly, you risk doing major harm. It's acceptable if you don't even insert the toy all the way. You should probably wait for another day if you're not prepared to "fail" at inserting your toy today.
In terms of body:
A throwaway mat to lie on. (Towels or sex blankets work great also; puppy pads are inexpensive and great for this.)
A paper towel or washcloth.
Your playthings.
Disposable gloves are optional.
(Optional) Any sensual or pornographic material you enjoy.
