How to Choose a Pegging Dildo?

Are you familiar with pegging? Yes, that is the action in which the female partner uses a dildo or another phallic device to penetrate the male partner. Even though many couples are aware of it, few are willing to give it a try due to its notoriety and the belief that pegging is abnormal.

No one's sexual preferences should be judged, and there is no justification for doing so. As a result, we view pegging as a delightful and sexy activity that couples engage in. Because of this, we'll talk about pegging dildos here, namely how to pick one you and your partner will like.

Pegging Dildo – A Must-Have for Adventurous Couples

Although there are many tools available for pegging a male partner, we always advise getting specialized equipment, such as a pegging dildo. At first glance, the pegging dildo could appear to be just another dildo. However, it differs somewhat in size and design.

To target the prostate or P-spot, pegging dildos are often narrower and have slightly accentuated points. The fact that pegging dildos are usually constructed from body-safe materials like silicone, metal, and Glass is another crucial component. A pegging dildo can be purchased as a standalone sex toy or as one that works with a strap-on harness.

Pegging Dildo Options

Couples typically begin pegging by exploring with their fingers before switching to sex devices. We always recommend using toys explicitly made for the activity because pegging dildos are made for safe anal play and are available in several kinds, including:

•  Pegging Dildo – The simplest model, the simple pegging dildo, is sleek, composed of materials that are safe for the body, including silicone, and works well for beginners;
•  Vibrating Pegging Dildo – The vibrating pegging dildo features an inbuilt vibrating motor that produces targeted vibrations, along with a sleek shape and appearance;
•  Pegging Set – A compatible harness may also be included with specific models, and the pegging set includes many pegging probes in different sizes;
•  Strapless Strap-On Dildo – Because it is designed to provide both male and female pleasure at the same time, this is the perfect toy for couples. The lady uses the protruding probe to peg her partner after wearing one end in the vagina and holding it there with the pelvic muscles;
•  Strap-On Harness Set – With a strap-on harness and a matching pegging probe, the strap-on kit includes everything a couple needs to begin pegging.

Key Features when Selecting Pegging Dildo

Here, we'll list the essential characteristics to consider when choosing a pegging dildo. Knowing the following details is vital since they will influence how you use and appreciate your pegging dildo:

•  Material: Always try to get a pegging dildo that is constructed of non-porous, body-safe materials so that you can enjoy it safely. Since their non-porous surfaces are advised for anal usage, we are referring to silicone, Glass, or metal. Additionally, utilize a water-based lubricant with your silicone pegging dildo.
•  Size: The size of the pegging dildo you receive should be controllable so that you or your partner may use it in a safe, comfortable, and enjoyable manner. Each pegging dildo's size is detailed on our product description pages.
•  Harness Compatibility: If you're thinking about strap-on play, ensure that your pegging dildo works with the majority of standard harnesses.
•  Extra Features: Some pegging dildos have extra features, such as vibrations that can be controlled by a wireless or wired remote. The suction cup base is another feature that enables more experimentation.

Why Use a Pegging Dildo?

No, pegging is not a gay pastime, but it is enjoyable. You should embrace this idea and work to make it a reality because pegging is classified as a sexual act between a man and a woman. Therefore, if you choose to use a pegging dildo, it is essential, and you will discover that it can strengthen your bond with your spouse.

Both partners must be honest about their desires, expectations, and boundaries to appreciate the great pleasure of pegging fully. Some couples are open about this kind of sex play, while others are hesitant, uncomfortable, or scared to question their partners. We've heard this enough.

Pegging is undoubtedly a fantastic method of stimulating the prostate and producing full-body orgasms, though. In addition to the stimulation of all the nerve endings in the rectum, men can also benefit from the benefits of having their prostate gently massaged.

Pegging Dildo Cleaning & Storage Tips

We suggest that you get a pegging dildo made of materials that are safe for your body, such as silicone. Although silicone gives a realistic sensation, it is harmless for the body. Glass and metal are other body-safe options that offer even more thrilling possibilities.

Before and after using your pegging dildo, always wash it. We always advise washing your pegging dildo with warm water and antibacterial soap or rinsing it with a sex toy cleaner to get rid of any residue. You must keep your pegging toy in a secure location, such as a dedicated sex toy storage bag after it has been cleaned and dried. Keep your sex toys out of harm's way by keeping them in safe places where they won't come into contact with one another.

This is our quick shopping guide for pegging dildos. We looked at the two most important factors to consider when buying a pegging dildo: the toy's size and substance. To help you find your most thrilling sex toy, we have prepared additional helpful guides and how-tos below. We have a fantastic assortment of exciting sex toys at our sex toy store, so please check it out as well!

10 Best Pegging Toys & Dildos for Beginners

It’s an adventure in and of itself to shop for the most excellent pegging toys online for the first time. Typically, a sex shop category titled “toys for pegging” is not there. Instead, they are a group of curved anal sex toys, tiny prostate toys, slim anal probes, tiny butt plugs, thin dildos, and suction cup vibrators.

You now have a pegging sex toys kit after combining this basket full of sex toys and determining which ones work with a strapon harness. Bewildered? Yes, purchasing the best pegging dildos for beginners might be challenging for couples who are looking for information for the first time, especially if you’re not as knowledgeable about the sexual fulfillment industry as we are.

Beginners take note: I’ve put together this internet shoppers guide to assist you in choosing the ideal set of products to satisfy your new kinky woman-on-man anal sex desire for the first time. Before you start, if you want to learn more about it, make sure you understand the meaning of pegging, some advice on making the experience more fun for couples, and some remedies.

There are 2 Types of Pegging Toys:

1. Pegging Strap on Harness
2. Pegging Dildo

The arithmetic is easy: 1 + 2 = 3. A pegging sex toy can be created by combining an anal dildo with a strap-on. Pegging Sex is when a woman wearing a strap-on dildo harness penetrates a man’s anal region. Previously, it was called role reversal. She is not pegging him if she is not wearing a strap-on. Otherwise, he only engages in anal foreplay or prostate stimulation.

Best Pegging Sex Toy Starter Kits

Buying a pegging kit is the simplest (and most common) option for couples to implement this trend in their bedroom. These top-selling strap-on dildos include both a harness and an attachment. These specialty kits are given with novices in mind. The harnesses' exquisite feminine style and tailored fit for the associated attachment are their most significant selling points.

Panty Pegging Strap on Kit

Our most opulent strap-on, the Panty Pegging Strap on Kit, has a red satin panty harness with a scalloped back and a lace overlay. It is sewed with a rubber O-ring to support the dildo. To ensure that your comfort is always maintained, the area between your skin and the spherical base is cushioned by two polyester layers.

It looks damn good, too! This fantastic assortment will help you discover your inner domina. The silicone dildo size that comes with it is the same regardless of the panty size that is chosen. It is available in both small and large variants.

Sex & Mischief Pegging Kit

Mischief & Sex: A lovely small silicone dildo with a slight forward curvature that naturally reaches his prostate is included in the pegging kit. The best pegging gadgets with prostate massage go hand in hand. He will return for more if you can pique his interest during intercourse.

One of the best tiny silicone dildos we sell is the lovely swirling pure silicone dildo. Plus-size women may easily fit into this simple yet excellent strap-on, which has a maximum waist size of 60 inches and adjusts around the legs and hips for a perfect fit.

Pegged Harness Kit

The Pegged Harness Kit provides outstanding value for the money. Thanks to a well-finished and stitched harness with a shiny PVC front, it has a dominatrix-like appearance and a slight kinky appeal. The silicone dildo, which is five inches long and just slightly larger than his finger, is non-toxic, safe, and nonporous. It’s a fantastic starting option for beginners.

This is the ideal strapon dildo package for both of them since it includes a pure silicone dildo for him, saving you the trouble of buying an attachment separately. Due to its hypoallergenic properties and ease of sterilization, pure silicone is a great selling point.

The upper portion curls slightly upward to enable the shaft to touch his prostate gland upon entry. He is not intimidated by the narrow 7/8-inch breadth, but make sure to apply thick butt lubrication to ensure a smooth first entry.

Anal Play & Prostate Stimulation

The ideal pegging dildo must have a tapering tip and curved shaft. During anal play, this will promote prostate stimulation. For anal insertion to be comfortable, the tapered tip is necessary.

Male sexual pleasure is significantly increased with prostate stimulators. The cherry on top of his anal pleasure is stimulating the prostate gland, which enhances the enjoyment of pegging intercourse.

This trend is already changing. Now that a woman may manually place the device into her partner’s butt and stimulate the delicate nerve endings without the necessity for a strap, things are becoming a little more relaxed. As time passes, the definition is somewhat changing.

The majority of shopping companions adhere to the initial plan and buy both the vibrator or pegging dildo and an additional dildo harness for the attachment.

These plugs and dildos are the perfect size for anal training, but before you dive in, read my tutorial on getting ready for anal Sex. To get used to the sensation of anal penetration, you can attempt these by yourself while masturbating; your partner doesn’t have to be there. To be in charge of the penetration’s depth, angle, and pace, I advise you to try it first. It is a delicate thing, the butt cherry!

10 Best Pegging Dildos for Beginners

1. Rump Rider Pegging Dildo

One of the thinnest pegging dildos for mildly beginning anal activity is the Rump Rider Pegging Dildo. With a kind “hello,” the sharply tapered tip softly peers inside his butthole.

If you point the top half toward his belly during insertion, you’ll notice a little curve that will help stimulate his prostate and improve his first anal penetration experience. Because the extensive suction base keeps up with the butt cheeks, it can also be worn as a butt plug.

Key Features:

• The thinnest pegging toy
• silicone that is safe for the body
• Flexible, smooth, and silky shaft
• When playing anal, it can be used as a butt plug.

2. Mini Curved Pegging Dildo

Nothing goes wrong with the Mini Curved Pegging Dildo. The extensive base of the little realistic dildo fits in any size harness ring, and its sharp curvature makes it ideal for precise prostate stimulation.

Although it can bend slightly, the shaft is still sufficiently rigid for anal entry. The smallest of all anal sex-appropriate dildos, the diminutive size won’t frighten him or cause him to pucker up, either. My favorite realistic dildo for pegging beginners is this one.

Key Features:

• A natural curve designed to stimulate the prostate
• Any strap on a ring can fit the broad base.
• The tiniest realistic toy for pegging
• 5 inches long with an insertable three 1/2-inch

3. Temptasia Dildo for Men

When attached to her harness, the Temptasia Dildo for Men is a very fashionable, flexible probe with a heart-shaped base that appears both feminine and mischievous. Because it’s shorter than an inch and long enough for him to feel it in his butt, it’s the ideal pegging toy for beginners.

The pure silicone in this essential accessory feels like silk and is nonporous, making it simple to clean with sex toy cleaner or antibacterial soap after use. Since the shaft is flexible, it will never prod in an uncomfortable spot as it slides inside his butthole. It feels fantastic and traces the arcs and passages of his rectum!

Key Features:

• Smooth, seamless probe for simple penetration
• The heart-shaped base adds a feminine touch of sophistication.
• The tiniest silicone toy for pegging
• 3/4 inch across and 4 1/2 inches long

4. Booty Call Pegging Toys Set

Our favorite line of introductory pegging toys is the Booty Call Pegging Toys Set. Despite their butt plug appearance, their length puts them in the “probe” region, which coincidentally works best when one partner is strapped.

This is a great beginner package for him to attempt if he has never inserted anything into the anus before because it comes with all three of the anal toys. He can even wear these as a butt plug during foreplay or penetrative Sex because the body-safe silicone feels silky and smooth.

Key Features:

• The starter set comes with all three plugs.
• Compared to fingers, tapered tips are thinner.
• composed of high-quality silicone
• Stiff build fits inside the anus with ease.

5. Realrock Prostate Pegging Dildo

The gentle curvature of the Realrock Prostate Pegging Dildo makes it perfect for stimulating the male prostate. Once inside the rectum, the dildo returns to its original curved shape, stimulating his prostate gland during pegging intercourse, even though it will straighten out upon anal entry.

Even if it is comfortable for him, you might need assistance trying to fit it into his butthole because of how little and soft the tip is. However, once inside, he finds the spongy shaft to be a sexual pleasure.

Key Features:

• For sale is the softest pegging dildo.
• Another use for a flat base is as a strong suction cup.
• Offered in variations for masculine colors.
• Curved tip to stimulate the prostate

6. Mini Whopper Anal Dildo

The tiniest pegging toy is the Mini Whopper Anal Dildo, which is a constant 1-inch length from tip to end. When properly lubricated, the top’s softly rounded back, which resembles a little penis head, pops in with ease.

The shaft is not overly floppy, but it can bend. If you use an excessively soft instrument, it will pinch and bend sideways when inserted. A firmer toy makes it easier because pressure is required to ease it into his anus.

Key Features:

• The smallest rubber fastener
• 1 inch in diameter and 5 3/4 inches in length
• Both brown and white skin tones are available.
• Any size O-ring is compatible with the large suction cup base.

7. Booty Teaser Anal Training Toy

One of the most excellent pegging toys for novices is the Booty Teaser Anal Training Toy, a little butt plug. While his lover thrusts, the tiny silicone shaft’s rounded end and thin neck provide his sphincter a massage-like sensation.

Compared to the standard rubber anal plug, the smooth silicone surface feels silky, and the pleasant, slimmer neck bends effortlessly. The anchor-shaped base secures itself by grabbing onto the strapon ring.

Key Features:

• base in the style of an anchor for external teasing
• Just silicone
• 4 inches in length
• less than one inch in diameter

8. Mini Whopper Vibrating Anal Dildo

The most incredible anal dildo vibrator is the Mini Whopper Vibrating Anal Dildo, which was designed for ladies but is now being used by couples as a vibrating pegging device. The lifelike penis-shaped shaft is flexible enough to move with your body as you change positions, but it is sturdy enough to fit deep into his ass.

A must-have little vibrator for couples that want intense adult toys, the forceful vibration is strong enough to send his ejaculation across the room and significantly enhances his climax.

Key Features:

• The most robust vibrating toy for pegging
• steady shaft for stovepipes
• With an insert of 4 ¾ inches
• Available in brown or beige

9. Dr. SkinSmall Dildo

The Dr. Skin Small Dildo’s curved shaft is flexible, allowing you to move about without prodding his rectum, and it’s constructed of smooth, silky rubber that penetrates incredibly comfortably. Its pleasant texture and ideal shape would please him.

The thin head that progressively thickens along the shaft gives him a pleasant, luscious stretch, while the flat circular base remains in place in a strapon ring. He can advise you on how deep to go depending on his enjoyment of the growing diameter. The shaft grows to 1 1/4 inches close to the base of the shaft (before the suction cup begins), and the tiny penis head is 1 inch broad.

Key Features:

• smooth and silky rubber surface
• A graduated shaft enhances enjoyment.
• Any strapon ring fits the flared base.
• Three hues are available.

10. BFF Petite Dildo for Strap On

For someone who has never inserted an anal probe, BFF Petite Dildo for Strap On might be too thick, but if your boyfriend has previously used butt plugs for Sex or masturbation, this one shouldn’t be too much of an increase. We adore this shape because it’s the perfect example of a smooth, non-binary, unisex anal toy that goes deep with plenty of flex to keep it comfortable.

For guys who don’t want a realistic-looking dildo for pegging, this form is excellent. When having strapon anal sex, the modest upward curvature is ergonomic, and the non-phallic form won’t make him feel uncomfortable. The low cost is also unbeatable!

Key Features:

• The most discrete shape is non-phallic.
• Low cost
• The prprostate’satural curve
• Men’s size upgrades are popular.

Best Strapons For Your Pegging Toy

Innovation Strap on Harness

The Innovation Strap on Harness is the most excellent strap for novices since it supports silicone dildos and has an elegant, streamlined style at an affordable price. Although less expensive harnesses are available, this one is lovely and incredibly comfy for her to wear.

It features an improved feminine style with a hemmed ring and a cotton lining. This is our most adaptable harness choice and the newest pegging strapon; it may be dressed naughtily or nicely. The entire item is hand-washable, and the thong-style back looks quite beautiful.

Key Features:

• Harness made of soft cloth
• Return of the sexy G-string style
• The fabric is stitched with a flexible rubber O-ring.
• Fits waists up to 50 inches.

SX Strap On for Pegging Toys

The SX Strap On for Pegging Toys is our most reasonably priced, well-made, and long-lasting choice. The fake leather harness backing is dark and subdued, resembling what a dominatrix would wear in the bedroom, and the silky soft straps won’t chafe. Ideal for fulfilling your fantasies about erotic Sex! Her utilization of a bullet feel is even possible upfront.

Although having two rubber O rings gives you more options for attachment sizes than the first option, most peg couples go for thin and small attachments, so having a vast O ring isn’t a big deal. Still, being versatile is always wonderful because you never know what the future will bring!

Key Features:

• The least expensive choice
• Designed to accommodate tiny pegging toys
• A fake leather harness
• fits waists up to 48 inches.

Lux Fetish Strap On for Pegging

Lux Fetish Strap On for Pegging is a gorgeous women’s strapon in jet black or hot pink. Its lining looks like velvety fleecy. Four locations on the torso allow the long nylon straps to be adjusted.

The straps easily accommodate a gal in size XXL and may be extended far longer than any other alternative. A bullet vibrator can be inserted into a pouch at the top for additional vibration when playing. One of the most aesthetically pleasing styles is the low rise; women who wear it undoubtedly feel like sex goddesses!

Key Features:

• The top has a pouch sewed in to allow the wearer to put in her vibrator.
• The velvet harness looks fantastic.
• Has a rubber O-ring that can be removed.
• Extra big sizes up to XXL (waist of 65 inches) are fit.

Other Pegging Toys for Beginners

Butt plugs make great toys for pegging. Initially designed for ladies, the best pegging toys for men also offer the potential of a dildo, which, in our experience, is ideal for men who wish to attempt backdoor penetration for the first time. Keep your options open while purchasing pegging gear online!

For first-time pegging, all of these dildos and butt plugs can be worn on a strap on a harness; however, as the video examples show, they can also be used on their own during male masturbation. It’s actually among the best methods for men to acclimate to the sensation of anal contact.

Guys go as deep or as shallow as they like and proceed at their speed. After thoroughly introducing yourself to the first-timer pegging toys you enjoy best, invite her into the room. Make sure to review the following recommendations, which are most popular among novices, before making any online purchases:

Conclude with Anal Lube

To sum up, butt lube is a crucial accessory that enhances enjoyment and makes the dildo insertion experience more pleasurable. Which one should I purchase? The most excellent pegging lube is thick water-based anal lube.

Compared to vaginal lubrication, a viscous gel is less runny, and the water-based type is easier to clean. Because silicone lubricant will eventually melt the surface of a silicone pegging toy, be sure only to use water-based lubrication. To minimize mess and ensure that the lube doesn’t leak out of his anus, add one of the lubricant applicators.

Lubricant is by far the most crucial factor to take into account when it comes to anal penetration from any combination of anal toys. When the partner tries to squeeze a dildo into the tight anus sphincter, it can cause severe discomfort and potentially damage the tissue because the anus does not lubricate itself as the vagina does.

Using lubrication correctly is the way to avoid this. It’s so popular that I’ve written a blog post explicitly discussing the value of personal lubrication and offering tips on how to use it to prevent anal pain. We want this new experience to be positive; therefore, the last thing you want is to start painfully, especially when partners are involved!

FAQs

What lube should we use for pegging?

The pegging dildo's substance determines the lubricant to use. A thick, water-based lubricant that works with all materials—including silicone pegging dildos—is always advised. You can use any lubricant if you have a glass or metal pegging dildo.

My wife and I are inquisitive about anal male play; should I let her peg me?

There are many nerve endings in the anus, and it can be rather enjoyable to stimulate it properly. Additionally, the rectum contains the prostate, also known as the P-spot, and encouraging this region is highly enjoyable. Pegging is a great way to promote the prostate and give men intense orgasms because it gives targeted P-spot stimulation. We advise you to try a strapless strap-on that is made to provide both couples with pleasure at the same time.

Is pegging gay?

Pegging is not a gay play; rather, it is a sexual act in which a woman uses her hands, a sex toy, or a specialized pegging dildo in a pegging harness to perform sex on a man. Gay men typically enjoy varied forms of emotional and sexual fulfillment and are attracted to guys. Please avoid allowing generic prejudices to influence your thoughts and prevent you from exploring your sexuality.

What is Pegging?

According to its conventional meaning, pegging is when a cisgender woman uses a strap-on dildo to pierce a cisgender man's anus. The phrase, however, has expanded in recent years to include anal penetration of any gender by any gender while wearing a strap-on. (You might wonder how someone with a penis might wear a strap-on. The solution is a hollow strap-on.

How Common is Pegging?

Unsurprisingly, there isn't much easily accessible data on pegging, given that we have only bothered to name it in the last 20 years. After being portrayed in a series of educational sex-education movies called Bend Over Boyfriend in the late 1990s and more recently in popular media like the TV series Broad City and the film Deadpool, cultural recognition of the practice is gaining traction.

Regarding complex data, Future Method, a wellness company, provided insight into pegging in with their 2019 small-scale survey. Anal sex, anal sex toys, anal sex, and pegging were among the butt-play experiences of over 880 American adults with active sexual lives. According to the survey, 16.7% of participants have attempted pegging.

Interestingly, although pegging is typically categorized as a heterosexual act, the proportion of individuals who reported having pegged was far more significant among the homosexual, lesbian, and bisexual populations. Just 10.4% of straight respondents, 31.4% of bisexual respondents, and 24.1% of gay and lesbian respondents said they had tried pegging.

What Does Pegging Feel Like?

You can relax if you're concerned that pegging is intended to cause agony to the individual being pegged. Pegging can be a hidden treasure trove of sexual pleasure, including intense orgasms, especially for people with prostates.

A tiny gland that secretes ejaculatory fluid, the prostate—also referred to as the p-spot—can be stimulated internally through the rectum's wall or externally through the perineum. The rectum, sphincter, and anus have a plethora of additional sensitive nerves that, when activated, can produce beautiful sensations. When penetrated, some people also enjoy the feeling of fullness or stretching. It can even be a lot of fun for the one doing the pegging. When thrusting, some women find that wearing a strap-on dildo stimulates their clitoral area either directly or indirectly.

However, pegging is much more than just physical stimulation in reality. The change in power dynamics and the reversal of customary roles in the bedroom are what many find to be the true appeal of pegging or being pegged. A woman may find it empowering to explore her more dominant side and penetrate her companion. On the other hand, a lot of straight men like the intimacy of penetration and adopt a more submissive role. Some couples believe pegging has even helped them develop trust in their partnership.

How Do You Prepare for Pegging?

Pegging works best when you prepare beforehand, unlike other bedroom activities more suited to spontaneity. This entails speaking openly with your partner, buying the appropriate gear, and making sure that your butt or your partner's is ready for pegging.

Talk To Your Partner

The concept of pegging or being pegged won't appeal to everyone. It's acceptable for some folks to have no interest in anal play at all! Discuss openly with your partner before removing the harness and strap-on mid-coitus. Tell them why you're interested in pegging and ask if they'd want to see a video or read more about it. Make sure to discuss expectations and boundaries in advance, along with a safe word in case things don't work out if you both decide to try pegging.

Choose the Right Pegging Accessories

You and your significant other will need a few essentials to enjoy the pegging experience. The strap-on dildo will undoubtedly be the main attraction. Here, you have several choices. Either buy a harness separately to use with a range of dildo sizes and varieties or invest in a strap-on that is already fastened to a harness.

You also have the option of an underwear-style harness or a conventional harness. While underwear harnesses can be more comfortable and even worn below your ordinary clothes, classic harnesses might be easier to adjust. A strapless strap-on, which is secured in place by the wearer's vaginal muscles rather than a harness, is an alternative to the conventional strap-on.

Personal lubricant is another essential. The anus is unquestionably not self-lubricating like the vagina is. Additionally, you should use as much lubrication as you can if you're new to anal penetration to prevent unpleasant microtears. Anal lube, which has a thicker consistency and can assist in reducing friction and last longer, is another option. Make sure the lubricant you use is appropriate for the kind of toys you're using; for instance, lubes with a silicone basis may break down silicone sex toys.

Prepare Your Derrière

When preparing your butt for pegging, there are a few things to take into account. Foremost and foremost, think about how much experience you have. Starting with a full-size strap-on dildo is generally not the best option if you're new to anal insertion. Instead, explore your body when you're at ease, either by yourself or with a companion. Before inserting a little object, such as a finger, try softly rubbing the anus orifice. Use lubrication, and if you experience any pain, stop. For some practice, if you're a complete beginner, think about getting an anal training kit. To prevent your muscles from tensing up when you're being penetrated, you should gradually progress to larger objects.