9 Sexy Date Ideas – and How to Plan It!
You have all you need to put your attention back on your romantic and intimate relationships this Valentine's Day with these sultry date ideas and a few Spencer's items.
The approaching Valentine's Day signifies a fresh emphasis on the connections that are important to you, particularly your romantic and private ones.
But you may be at a bit of a standstill: How do you start talking to your partner again? While "date night" is the standard recommendation, what about another meal and a movie? The most recent Hollywood releases are starting to bore you a little.
The key question then becomes: What are some of the most seductive date ideas available? Instead of saying, "Well, that was a nice Wednesday activity," how can you break up your "stereotypical" date night so that it genuinely seems like a reunion?
The first step is to get a little more inventive with your dates. Use some of these ideas as a starting point, then let your thoughts go wild!
1. Sexy Board Games
Think about playing a seductive board game if you enjoy a pleasant, sensual evening at home. If you choose this option, the developer of the board game has already done all the work; all you need to do is show up, play, get excited, and enjoy yourself!
Spencer's carries the Behind Closed Doors board game, one of hundreds of other board game alternatives available.
If this sounds like a good idea for you, it's crucial to choose a board game that complements the atmosphere you want to create tonight. Would you like to become intensely aroused? Would you like to know more about your significant other? Do you want to experiment with kinky things in a relaxed setting? There is a seductive board game out there to fit your interests, regardless of what you're looking for. With a little bit of everything, the board game Behind Closed Doors is a fantastic choice if you're unsure of what you're after. Get yours at Spencer's before Valentine's Day!
Don't limit yourself to playing your sexiest board game. Take into account "setting the mood" to maximize the impact of your board game. This could appear to be as easy as lighting a single tea light, clearing the coffee table of clutter, and lowering the lights for busy couples. This may involve cleaning the entire living area, choosing erotic-feeling fragrances, playing a seductive soundtrack, and arranging mood lighting for couples with more time. It depends on what works for your schedule.
2. Head to "Make-Out Point"
When you first started dating, the best part of your week was making out in your car. Do you remember that?
Set yourself up to appreciate your partnership once more by bringing that same energy to it. Just take the car to a quiet, isolated location and have fun making out. (Bonus points if you've been making fun of each other all Day, so by the time you park, you're both a little energized!)
For comfort and safety reasons, you can also think about setting "limits" on how far you two will travel in the car. You can enjoy the entire journey home with a beautiful, throbbing arousal until you return to the comforts of your own house, and perhaps "first base" is as far as you both feel comfortable. (Or maybe just the garage's seclusion!)
3. Enjoy a Lazy Morning
You most likely reserve "lazy mornings" for yourself when on vacation. However, who says that in order to experience those same feelings, you must spend hundreds of dollars? Instead, you can occasionally enjoy those lazy mornings in your own home with a little preparation! Imagine it as an enjoyable "date night" before the Day's stresses have started to drag you down.
Decide to spend as much time as possible in bed on a particular morning.
This may require you to get out of bed and carry breakfast back into your bed.
Before getting up and starting your Day, this may just be spending an hour or two cuddling, talking, and being stripped. You or your spouse should dress in some sexy, comfortable clothing if you don't want to go nude right away. What do we recommend? Designed to fit comfortably and flaunt your already flawless figure, Spencer's Double Dare Bustier and Thong Panties combination might be the perfect addition to a "lazy morning" or "sexy morning."
Try to put the Day's logistical problems aside for this kind of date and concentrate on your relationship rather than arranging the Day in advance. With a partner wearing lace in front of you, it's easy to forget about your grocery list. That's where Spencer's Double Dare Bustier and Thong Panties combo comes in handy!
Childcare may be the most challenging aspect of this date. Make arrangements for a caretaker if you can. If your kids are old enough to look after themselves, think of something unusual to do to keep them busy. If you can't do any of those, it might be preferable to go to bed a little earlier so you can get up earlier and have some alone time before the sun rises.
4. Check Local Hotels and Spas for Day Rates
Perhaps it is currently too expensive to stay for the entire night in a boutique hotel. Your local options, however, may surprise you by offering "day rates" on weekdays. Instead, could you spare a lengthy lunch?
For hotels that specialize in "romance," a four-hour lunchtime slot can be provided during the week. It's significantly less expensive than an evening because of this, and you might not have to bother about childcare. Both parties benefit!
Consider giving them a call to inquire about the day rate if it isn't specified on their website.
5. Drive-In Movie with Bonus Pleasure!
Do you recall driving-in films? It turns out that they are still around, even though they are more difficult to locate now! Enjoyable sex toys allow you to relive some of the excitement of drive-in films with an adult twist! The availability and cost of hands-free sex toys are increasing due to the proliferation of new technology on the market. For instance, Spencer's Hott Love Extreme Rechargeable Vibrating Underwear costs less than $70 and has ten (10!) distinct vibrating speeds.
You can enjoy becoming hot and bothered at a "movie theater" while no one else knows by just packing your Hott Love Extreme Rechargeable Vibrating Underwear in your car!
However, pay close attention to the person wearing the underwear's facial expressions, mainly if the theater is packed tonight!
(You may need to be a little more inventive if you don't have access to a drive-in theater. You might want to "watch" a movie on your tablet or cell phone when you're parked somewhere. Even though you can't order hot snacks, you can still enjoy a movie in the comfort of your vehicle!)
6. Dinner and a Vibrator!
This time, let's take advantage of the Hott Love Extreme Rechargeable Vibrating Underwear's capabilities. Following a fantastic drive-in movie date, you will once more test out the remote-controlled vibrator in the comfort of your own house.
One person will be assigned the role of "cook" for the evening, and they will either share the responsibilities or prepare a fantastic meal for their significant other. Do whatever makes you happy on your date!
The twist of fun? Holding the remote control for the cook's wearable remote-controlled vibrator will be the "non-cooking" companion.
The spouse who isn't cooking can "buzz" the cook at any time, although they should avoid any plainly risky situations, such as taking things out of the oven or wielding a knife. This may occur when they require a refill for their beverage or to observe them writhing as they attempt to retrieve components. It all comes down to the lighthearted back and forth on a game that you have both likely played hundreds of times.
7. Get Creative with Sex Toy Kits
Is there a sex toy kit lying in your home somewhere? Or perhaps you haven't bothered to get one? If yes, this is the moment! Spending a date night evening exploring a whole kit might be enjoyable.
You see, sex toy kits are made with a particular "scene" or "purpose" in mind. For instance, Spencer's Kinky Adventures Sex Toy Kit, which includes several spanking toys and activity cards that provide usage instructions, is an easy-to-use introduction to a little impact play and kink.
Discovering your new (or unfamiliar) sex toy kit can be a fantastic date idea in and of itself!
However, if you have a previously purchased kit stashed away in the back of the closet, think about pulling it out and giving it a little TLC! What are all the entertaining applications for it? Do those nipple clamps really dangle from your partner's body like shivering bells? Is the flogger an erotic sensation play toy or a tickling toy? Do the "satin restraints" that are included really serve as a very useful blindfold?
Taking a fresh look at your old kits might be a fun way to get more usage out of them. Additionally, you may discover that your abilities or quirks have evolved since you first purchased the kit, and you now have fresh concepts to complement these products!
Place the kit on the bed and follow your ideas.
Make contact with the objects. Move them along the skin of your spouse. See how handling them makes them feel. Where your mind leads, you will probably surprise you.
8. Head to the Dollar Store
If you want to get kinky, your neighborhood dollar store can be a fantastic source of original ideas. Nothing is too expensive, and you can ponder all the enjoyable possibilities each item offers throughout your visit.
Therefore, visit your neighborhood dollar store the next time you have the mental stamina for a romantic date night. Look for objects that might be used for kinking or sexual purposes. For instance, a loose winter hat may be slipped over the eyes to act as a blindfold, and a spatula could be used for spanking.
Try making the "sexiest" outfit you can wear for sex and dare each other to see who can hold back from laughing the longest if you like funny things. For instance, a lime green hair scrunchie might be turned into a cock ring, and a dollar store strainer could be used to create the ideal hat.
In any case, when you return home with your treasure, set a challenge for yourself to see if all of your imaginative ideas translate as smoothly in practice as they did in your imagination.
9. Plan New Date Nights
This romantic date night idea is perfect if you're thrilled about the possibilities. Use your date night to schedule more date nights in the future!
Get comfortable with a tasty meal (cooked or takeout; it's up to you!), a pen and paper, and a piece of paper. Just cuddle up to one other now and discuss all the fun things you two want to do. This could be as straightforward as going to a particular restaurant or more complex as learning how to prepare a specific meal. You may also find yourself listing items like "Car sex at a national park," mainly if the suggestions are a little spicily worded. Allow your thoughts to roam and enjoy pondering the "what if" scenarios. Later on, you may always narrow down the list!
Review your list one more when you have both finished it and make any necessary sorting or deletions. Things that can be completed in a single evening are good because this is meant to be a list of possible date nights. Bravo if you both have discovered that you have also created a "couple's bucket list," though! To realize your dreams, feel free to write them down in a different location.
Once your list is complete, write the date suggestions on pieces of paper and throw them in a container.
Now, sketch on paper the next time you need ideas for your romantic date night. It benefits everyone!
How to Plan a Sexy Date Night
You still need to arrange the date after you have a broad notion of what you want to do. The following advice can help make date night planning as easy as possible:
Write Down Everything You Need for the Date
Make a list of everything you'll need for the date first. My suggestion is to create three columns:
- Needed.
- Owned.
- mental.
List all of the tangible items you'll require for the event, arranged according to whether you "Own" or "Need" them. This can assist you in estimating the amount of time necessary to collect items from around your home or in figuring out where to purchase them. Lastly, don't overlook the "mental" items you require. What state of mind must you and your significant other be in before going on a date? Will it work on a busy Wednesday night? Does it demand that you both feel at ease and content? This might assist you in determining how to include it to get the greatest possible positive effect.
Schedule the Date
Plan your date night now that you know what's needed, what kind of mood you need, and how long it will take to be ready. Schedule, indeed! On your potential date, be sure to ask your companion again about their mental health. You never know if they're planning to clean out the garage or have a demanding business meeting that Day.
Delegate Gathering Supplies
Yes, I am aware that you are organizing this exciting date night, but please share some of the work. Now that you have a neat, convenient list, give your partner some of the chores to complete and let them handle it. If you're stressed out about organizing everything on your own, you'll find it difficult to unwind on the date night.
Store the Items Together
Having everything prepared makes planning your date night much less stressful. Set out a tiny section of the bedroom to create your pile, especially for goods you don't often touch or those you buy specifically for the occasion. This is a terrific way to ensure everything is prepared and stress-free on date night, in addition to serving as a friendly reminder to be excited about your date!
Schedule Childcare
The majority of date night ideas involve avoiding distractions. If that's the case, plan your childcare carefully.
Enjoy Yourselves
Try to have a good time on the night of your date! As necessary, establish regulations to ensure that occurs. Are cell phones prohibited? Are pictures allowed?
Do you both think that writing a love note to each other after the date helps you both remember it as a memorable moment? To make your next date night as therapeutic as possible, figure out what works best for you and take advantage of it.
Conclusion
Valentine's Day is an excellent opportunity to be creative with the time you spend with your love and sexual relationship or partners. Fortunately, it's not difficult to revamp your date night routine. With these suggestions and a few items from Spencer's, you can put your attention back on your romantic and intimate relationships.
