
The Cross Position
The name "cross sex" comes from the way couples' bodies create a "T" or Cross.
The receiver lies perpendicular to the giver and lifts their legs to enter this sex position, while the giver lies on their side. For penetration to occur, they converge at the hips. The recipient lowers their legs after penetration, bending their knees over their partner's thighs and waist.
More About The Cross Position
Both parties can easily reach the receiver's clitoris or penis in this posture to touch it or use a sex toy to stimulate it. It is possible to utilize the Cross for anal sex in addition to vaginal sex. Additionally, this position offers a means of transitioning into other sex positions, such as the scissors or spoon position.
This position does not require a great deal of strength or endurance, in contrast to many other sex positions. When one or both parties are exhausted but still want to have sex, this is a terrific alternative. It might also be easier for those with disabilities to access.
Modifying the Cross Sex Position
The Cross position's straightforward design makes it suitable for various body types. To facilitate penetration, both partners lie down, one on their back and one on their side.
To ensure that the Cross sex position is as comfortable as possible for your bodies, there are still a few simple methods to adjust it:
- Add pillows or bolsters. Due to how your bodies are positioned, there won't be long, deep thrusts in the Cross position. This might be advantageous! To make the Cross position as pleasant as possible, you can surround yourself with cushions, bolsters, or sex furniture. Those bolsters are more likely to remain in place if the body has little movement.
- The receiver can leave their legs in the air. Several solutions are available if the receiving partner has trouble getting their legs on the ground and onto the opposite side of the penetrating partner. You can perform this posture with the penetrating partner's rear end against a wall. This allows the recipient to rest their legs flat against a wall. With a device similar to a G-spot sling, the receiving partner can raise their legs in the air.