Stroke That: How to Rub Her the Right Way

Although your hands are attractive, are you using all the petting opportunities at your disposal?

I was a copy shop employee. It was a job that paid the bills, but it was neither glamorous nor sexy. Some days, I had to stand at a counter taking orders for boring hours as part of my employment. I would have customers waiting impatiently in line for my time. They would provide me with their paperwork when they approached the desk, and I would record their order data and forward the tasks to the machine operators.

The customers didn't interest me. The specifics of their day and how they urgently required this because they had a flight to catch were not things I wanted to know. I had no interest in social interaction. Eye contact was therefore not necessary. However, I started paying close attention to their hands as we transferred documents back and forth. As I studied their complexion, fingernails, and motions, they naively moved papers and pointed out specifics of their employment. I would ascertain their level of self-care, whether they engaged in manual labor, and what level of dexterity they possess at these times.

Ultimately, I divided my clientele into two groups: yes and no. Indeed, I would have sex with them based just on the information I could learn from their hands. Or I wouldn't. I got to objectify people for my erotic pleasure in a straightforward game. It was a diversion.

Over the years, when I've told other women about my game, several acknowledged that they also evaluate hands. Women, examine your hands. We can tell how well you take care of them. We can learn even more by the way you handle our bodies. Sexual tools are your hands. These suggestions can completely surprise your significant other.

Thigh Play

Whatever the cause, an orgasm is a sequence of uncontrollable muscle spasms. Every orgasm involves the thighs since those muscles extend into a woman's inner thighs. You come into close contact with her orgasmic platform when you touch her inner thighs. Inner thighs are extremely erogenous beyond that. Only a woman's lovers touch her thighs. We are therefore extremely sensitive to any touch in this region.

How can I do that? She might enjoy the gradual ascent of her thighs by your fingers. If you're a bit harsher, you may confidently grab her inner thighs or slap them while complimenting her on her attractiveness. This will make her heart race before you even approach her favorite places.

Full Frontal Contact

Holding your palm over her entire vulva and pressing against it while completely encasing her in the warmth of your hand will heighten the suspense. Keep it there longer than you believe is appropriate. Wait until she begins to wriggle and demand more.

Stroke It

Are you prepared for friction? Yes, she is. The fun will increase if you use high-quality lubrication. Try silicone or water-based products. Each will provide a diverse experience. Try both. The best part is that lubrication will shield her skin from tiny friction burns, which can occur even when she plays lightly. Her body will stay healthy as a result, and playing for extended periods will be feasible and much more enjoyable.

Dip a finger or two just inside her vaginal entrance sometimes while you move your moist fingers up and down, from her perineum to the area next to her clit. With each stroke, let your thumb brush her clit while your middle finger takes the lead. Then observe. Her body will open up, and her breath will become deeper. These are indications of her happiness. Observe her reaction and adjust the tempo and cadence to suit her requirements.

The Clit Is It (Or Not)

Although I would never dare to advise you on how to touch your lover's clit, I can provide you with a wealth of knowledge and motivation.

A pearl, a pea, or a button is not the clitoris. In reality, it is a little shaft, approximately one inch long, that is protected by a skin hood at the pubic mound, where the labia converge. This one spot is where thousands of nerve endings congregate. To reach her brain directly, these nerves travel deep under her lips, then up towards her navel, between her legs, past her anus, and up her spine. Today, the clitoris is referred to as the clitoral complex since it is so ingrained in a woman's sexual anatomy.

She might not want you to touch it at all because some clits are extremely sensitive. Other ladies desire intense pressure on the pubic bone and rough circular action. Some women enjoy a little stroking to the left or right but dislike direct clitoral contact. Please get to know her. Light up, see how she reacts, and apply what you've learned.

Steal Her Moves

This one is simple: Encourage her to touch herself, observe her behavior, and take advantage of her strategies. A woman is speaking to you when she touches herself. She can also express herself vocally by talking to you or making noises. So use your ears to fuck her. Keep an eye out for small movements, tension and release, quivers, hips rising, toes pointing, and deepening or holding her breath, as she will also communicate with her body. Be mindful, learn about her body, and pay attention.

Take Her There

Try different things if you want to arouse her. You should aim for steady, rhythmic motions if you're going to give her an orgasm. Your movements may cause her thighs, ass, or pelvic muscles to pump. Tell her you want to feel her muscles pump with you if you don't already. This will cause a more intense orgasm.

Don't let up until you've identified the movement and location pushing her over the brink. Finding something she truly enjoys and then moving on to something else without asking how she feels is the worst thing you can do.

Your Best Sexual Tool (Really)

Your hands are superior to all other sexual equipment, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Your hands are incredible, from the warm palm to the delicate pads of your fingertips and all the tiny muscles that give them various motions. And it might be a wonderful experience for you both to learn how to use them.