Shock Your Sex Life: Electrosex for Couples

Your love life can be electrified with a violet or neon wand without causing you any discomfort.

Many people believe that only those who prefer pain should engage in electric sex play. It couldn't be further from reality. The majority of electrosex devices let you either change the settings for mild, erotic pleasure or turn up the intensity to deliver a powerful punch.

Erotic electrostimulation toys are used by many people who think of themselves as "vanilla" in the bedroom to titillate their spouse painlessly or have hands-free orgasms. Do you want to test it? What you should know is as follows.

Eeek! Why would I want to be electrocuted?

If you have never heard of electro-sex play before, you may be asking yourself, "Wait a minute. The characters in kinky porn constantly scream as if they are being brutally shocked when I see the electric sex equipment. That doesn't seem like much fun.

The problem is that hardcore BDSM scenes nearly invariably involve the usage of the electrosex gadgets we see in porn. In a typical footage, a person is strapped down and connected to a cunning electric gadget that causes them to wriggle and squeal in pain. We typically only witness the end of the spectrum in pornography.

That's what's most thrilling to see, after all! Although electrosex toys can provide the same effect at home, many of us are never able to witness their much softer side.

Both varieties of electrosex devices are adaptable enough to be used for gentle lovemaking or intense fetish play. These are TENS units and wands. Each produces rather distinct feelings and is utilized for various forms of electrosex play. TENS units are better suited for vaginal orgasmic stimulation since they penetrate deep tissue, whereas wands are usually applied to the skin's surface.

In this post, I'll concentrate on wands; later, we'll explore the fascinating realm of TENS units.

What is this thing? An electrified dildo?

Usually referred to as neon or violet wands, these devices are not intended to induce orgasm or be placed inside the body. They are only used for sensation play; therefore, you move them over your partner's body like a feather or an ice cube.

Other violet wands and the Kinklab Neon Wand have a similar appearance. They are made up of a handheld base plugged into the wall. The base is connected to various attachments, the most popular of which are glass electrodes. When powered up, the electrodes shine like neon sign tubing. An arc of electricity emerges when you hold the glass a quarter of an inch above the person's skin.

It resembles the bouncing "lightning" inside a plasma ball. Wherever the tiny, lightning-like electric arc meets the recipient, they experience sensation.

What do electrosex wands feel like?

Wands can feel warm, tickling, or somewhat tingly on lower settings. Increasing the power intensifies the reaction to a harsh prickling, scratching, or static shock sensation. Some claim a wand feels like a tattoo gun when set to extremely high levels.

However, to honestly know the answer, you must test it yourself. Due to various factors, including body density and skin moisture levels, each person experiences the wand's effects slightly differently.

What's better for electrosex, a Neon Wand or a violet wand?

The Neon Wand from Kinklab is my go-to tool for novice and expert players. It's a wise decision for several reasons. A normal violet wand kit costs between $400 and $500 (USD), but a neon wand costs between $100 and $150 (USD). Furthermore, the technology behind violet wands dates back to the Victorian era.

They can only be used for ten to fifteen minutes before overheating, are more difficult to control, and have the potential to "leak" electricity from the handle, shocking the person holding it. These unwanted effects are eliminated by the solid-state Neon Wand's enhanced technology.

For certain BDSM players who prefer excruciating pain, the Neon Wand might not be strong enough. Fortunately, anyone who craves extreme pain can be satisfied by enhancing the intensity of a neon wand with a cheap Power Tripper accessory. This attachment's one end connects to the Neon Wand's handheld base. The bottom (the person experiencing sensation) either holds or tucks a little, flat metal piece on the other end into a bra or waistband.

The bottom's entire body turns into a single, large electrode as long as that flat metal object continuously touches their skin. To put it another way, they are electric throughout!

They both sense a lightning-like spark that travels between them when the top (the person providing feeling) hovers their fingertips just above the bottom's skin. Any surface on either partner's body, including the tongue, genitalia, feet, etc., can have this effect.

Additionally, the top can use any conductive metal object to touch their spouse. Silverware, Wartenberg pinwheels, wire brushes, aluminum foil, Christmas tinsel, stainless steel dildos, and metal chains are all examples of objects that can be used as sensual tools. You can experiment with many diverse sensations because every object is different and behaves differently.

You can select whether your instruments provide wonderful torment or pleasure by adjusting the power level on the handheld device, which still controls the intensity of those feelings.

How can I use an electrosex wand with my partner?

The Neon Wands are fantastic toys for couples and are perfect for introducing playfulness and originality into the bedroom. They assist you in concentrating on erogenous zones that you might otherwise overlook. Enhancing foreplay and intensifying the entire sexual experience can be achieved by bringing those sweet spots to life.

Consider this: How often have you caused your partner to tremble by stroking the back of their knees or closely examining the length of their arm?

You can rediscover lost pleasures with a long-term relationship or explore with a new lover with electric wands. Naturally, wands have a wonderfully sexual sensation on genital surfaces and nipples. One popular method among electrosex fans is electrified oral sex with the Power Tripper.

Finally, remember role-playing. Wands are fantastic props for mad scientist or doctor/patient scenarios, for those who enjoy that stuff. Think of it as your "sex lab."

OK. But are electrosex toys safe?

Despite being remarkably safe and delivering very low energy levels, those with pacemakers, insulin pumps, or other electronic medical implants shouldn't use neon or violet wands.

Electrosex wands are also not recommended for pregnant women or those with cardiac rhythms or disorders.

It is not recommended to place glass electrodes into any orifice, such as the mouth, anus, or vagina. Additionally, wands should never be used near or on the eyes.

I'm bummed I can't use electrosex wands for masturbation or internal genital stimulation. Do I have any other options?

You do, indeed! A TENS unit with electrosex toys might be more your style if you want to get right to the point and experience powerful orgasms.