Seated Royalty Sex Position

A queening chair is used in the Seated Royalty Position to make face-sitting and queening more pleasant and safe for both the giver and the recipient.

Put your queen's chair on a level, open area long enough for the giver to lie on their back with the top of their head close to the chair's opening to achieve this sex position. The donor can then slowly rise their upper body and wiggle their way underneath the chair, or the receiver can "scoot" their butt into place as the giver raises their head. After that, the recipient takes a seat in the queen's chair. The recipient may need to spread their cheeks while they sit if anilingus is desired.

Although the receiver can enter position first, many couples may discover that the giver needs more room to move into position before the recipient takes their place on the "throne."

More About Seated Royalty Sex Position

There are many drawbacks to traditional facesitting and queening sex positions. They may also make it difficult for the giver to breathe easily when required, in addition to putting a lot of weight on the giver's head and neck. Kneeling can send the receiver's lower legs to sleep very quickly, and because their feet are tingling from the legs' folded-over positions, they might have to tap out earlier than they would have liked.

By utilizing a piece of sex furniture explicitly made for queening positions—a queening chair—the Seated Royalty position allays those worries. Although queening chair designs differ, they all enable the receiving partner to sit on furniture that resembles a chair. A hole in the receiver's "seat" allows the giver to use their mouth to gratify the oral sex recipient, while the giving spouse is positioned in some way beneath this furniture.

The Seated Royalty position enables couples to enjoy facesitting and queening positions more effectively by utilizing a queening chair. Since the providing partner is practically seated in a chair, they may find it easy to settle into the position and concentrate on having fun. The giver may move their head and neck as they like because they are elevated, which relieves pressure on their head and lets them breathe when necessary. Here, wrestling-style "tap outs" are not required!

More couples will be able to experience this sensual oral sex position if the obstacles to facesitting are removed. Facesitting may finally be an option for caregivers who have respiratory issues. In the Seated Royalty posture, people who are wholly or partially paralyzed could be able to give or receive. (We suggest a queen-size chair with a full, supportive back if that is the intention.)

The Seated Royalty position can assist in breaking down mental boundaries in addition to physical ones. For some people, facesitting can produce claustrophobia and anxiety, which can be lessened by letting the providing partner move their head.

Select a queen-size chair style based on your playtime and physical requirements. The main grievance of many queening chair users is the receiver's lack of back support. Consider placing the back of the queening chair against a wall so the receiving partner can lean back against the wall if you're having trouble maintaining the Seated Royalty position.

Some couples might discover that the Seated Royalty position isn't a good fit for them, even with the queening chair involved. Don't worry if that's the case! Keep in mind that having sex is about having fun, not about striking random positions. To find a sex position that you can enjoy and relax in, feel free to experiment with any of the hundreds of other positions that are more respectful of your bodies and brains.

The Seated Royal Position for All Types of Oral Sex

The queening chair's design gives the couple options in where to insert their tongues, unlike many oral sex positions that only permit cunnilingus or fellatio. This could also involve rimming.

The giver's tongue can be moved to the proper location with the cooperation of both partners.

It could be necessary for the giver to change the height or tilt of their head to get it in the proper position to enjoy the desired area. The headrest height may need to be adjusted if the queening chair has one built in.

To make it simpler to reach the desired location, the receiver might need to bend forward or backward. Spreading the cheeks with the hands while the receiver sits down may also be necessary if they have a big booty. The giving partner may find it easier to enjoy difficult-to-reach places (such as the anal entrance!) without using their hands if the platform of the queening chair keeps the cheeks open.

In this situation, be cautious if the receiving spouse is a penis-owner seeking fellatio and for many penises, bending downward. At the same time, erect is difficult and might cause pain rather than pleasure. The giver might prefer to perform oral sex while kneeling in front of the queen's chair, as in the Sofa Oral position, if such is the case.

Adding Pleasure to the Seated Royalty Position

With many more possibilities for pleasure, the Seated Royalty posture opens everyone's hands for business.

To make the position even sexually stimulating, either partner can use their hands or sex toys to enjoy themselves. In the Seated Royalty position, larger sex toys, such as air suction toys, penis vibrators, penis strokers, or wand massagers, can also be excellent companions because both lovers have plenty of open room in front of them to reach between their legs.

Partners who might feel uneasy about their capacity to experience an orgasm from oral sex alone may find this to be of particular use. The recipient can quickly return to "tried and true" methods for climax while still enjoying the intimacy of oral sex from their lover, because either party can add more physical stimulation.

The ability of the provider to enjoy themselves can help calm any recipient preoccupied with being the center of attention. It may lessen the "I'm being selfish" worry that some recipients might have because the provider can simply organize and motivate themselves.

The Seated Royalty posture can also be a fantastic fit for hands-free anal toys. Anal beads or vibrating butt plugs can provide both partners with additional stimulation.

If purchasing a butt toy specifically for this reason, keep the base in mind when you shop for sex toys. You want to make sure the base won't interfere with the oral sex that you both want to have. Additionally, we advise the receiver to sit on the queening chair and wear the anal toy for a few trial runs. The pelvic floor may relax in a way that forces the anal plug out because some queening chairs can resemble familiar positions. This is probably not what you want to happen during play!

Restraint is another way to increase enjoyment. Bondage possibilities are integrated into certain queening chairs. Many couples like to add a little restraint to the experience since queening sex positions are frequently employed for kinky scenarios (but they don't have to be!). You can use the bondage points incorporated into your queening chair, such as the XR Brands Queening Chair, to restrain the giver or recipient. If not, you can make your bondage points on your queening chair or with neighboring bondage points using Sportsheets Cuffs and Tethers. (For even more bondage alternatives, the giving partner might lie on top of the Liberator Bondi Board!)