Post-Orgasm Torture

The uncomfortable and occasionally painful stimulation of the genitalia and other erogenous zones right after orgasm is referred to as post-orgasm torture. Following an orgasm, many people may have extreme sensitivity in the vulva, clitoris, labia, vagina, penis, anus, scrotum, and perineum. Some persons do not want these portions touched in the moments following the climax. For those who do, this technique can produce a very strong and intense orgasm, but it also requires letting go of control and facing discomfort.

How is post-orgasm torture done?

Stimulating the hands, mouth, feet, penis, vulva, and other body parts, as well as using sex toys, are all examples of post-orgasm torture. To make sure the victim of torture is unable to stop their tormentor, bondage might also be used in the scene. It should be noted that the victim of post-orgasm torture is performing a voluntary act, even though the term "torture" is used.

Both the victim and the perpetrator of post-orgasm torture can be any individual, irrespective of gender or sexual orientation. Another type of control or power play is post-orgasm torture, in which one individual uses sexual coercion to manipulate another.

Other BDSM or control-related elements may or may not be present in this dominant/submissive scene, or the players may want the minutes following the climax to be the main focus. Some people may endure this post-orgasm phase and torture, which involves ongoing stimulation until the victim is comfortable enough to resume sexual activity.

According to Philadelphia-based Dominatrix Mistress Mona, "Post-orgasm torture is taking advantage of somebody's genitals after orgasm." For instance, pinching the clit after someone with a clitoris cums does so to produce this pain rather than pleasure. They recently had an orgasm so that it will feel incredibly delicate.

How many people are into this kink?

About 28% of the 1,580 female-identifying members of the kink community who participated in a 2015 poll reported having undergone breast torture, while 16% reported having undergone genital torture. Approximately 50% of respondents said they had been a part of breast or genital torture in one way or another, whether they were the ones doing, receiving, or witnessing the practice.

Because of the drama and intensity of these moments, post-orgasm torment is also frequently seen in pornography. A subgenre of memes has also been created by post-orgasm torment, with pictures of characters experiencing sensory overload with the comment, "nutted but she still suckin'."

More About Post-Orgasm Torture

Effective post-orgasm torture sequences depend on everyone's cooperation and frank, honest communication. Torture after an orgasm shouldn't be introduced unexpectedly. Following climaxing, there may be intimate and physically delicate moments.

What are some of the things to be aware of with post-orgasm torture?

The submissive should provide a safe word or bodily cue that signals the dominant to stop since this kind of play involves discomfort and possible harm. Everyone concerned should always be aware that there may be a thin line separating too much from too little.

Post-orgasm torture overstimulates the entire body, causing rapid and instinctive reactions because the body is already in a state of heightened sensitivity. As the "victim" loses control over their body, it makes them feel vulnerable and places the torturer in a position of authority; this can also lead to a sense of humiliation.

During post-orgasm torture, many people use their bodies, ropes, cuffs, or other tools to restrain their partner. To guarantee that post-orgasm torment can start right away, this is ideally done before orgasm.

It is recommended to concentrate on the sensitive head of the penis or glans while performing post-orgasm torture on a person who has a penis. If the torture is administered while the victim is still upright, it will be most effective. After ejaculation, cock rings, or cock bondage might assist in maintaining the erection.

The ideal form of post-orgasm torture for a person with a vulva is stimulation of the clitoris. Using extra lubrication for post-orgasm torture might improve sensation, even if the fluids produced during sex and orgasm can assist in lubricating the body. A common choice for post-orgasm torment of the clitoris is a wand massager.

Post-orgasm torture may also be used as a game or as a kind of discipline for early ejaculation. To intensify the experience, post-orgasm torture can be combined with additional forms of physical punishment, verbal abuse, or humiliation if your partner arrives too soon or before you.

How can I enjoy this kink safely?

Constant consent should be practiced during torture play. Sexual partners should discuss whether post-orgasm torture is something that both parties want before it is performed. Continuous check-ins are still a good idea if they are. For instance, the person undergoing torture may ask their partner a question that reveals what they are about to do as they approach their climax. For example, "Would you like me to pinch your clit?" It's the partner's cue to carry on with the post-orgasm torture if the aroused individual responds enthusiastically or assists physically. Negotiating continuous consent is essential in torture play in particular; like in other kinky situations and sexual activities, consent can be given, refused, or altered at any time. Everyone concerned needs to be ready to honor that.

Regarding aftercare, it's a good idea to inquire about the person's health and level of suffering during post-orgasm torture. Such issues must be treated if there are any skin punctures or bleeding. Recognizing and obtaining the required care is critical if a significant injury needs medical attention. Aftercare may resemble kinky or non-kinky sex if the pain is enjoyable and the individual is feeling well. At the moment, partners can ask each other what they need. It may be a massage, a kiss, an embrace, or a longing look.