How to Orgasm from Anal Sex

We promise that it is well worth the effort to experience an orgasm via anal sex, even though it may require some patience, experimenting, and a lot of lubrication.

A recent Ok Cupid survey found that 17% of women enjoy orgasm via anal sex, while 42% of women are interested anal sex. (Being a member of the 17% makes me proud.)

Angela Watson, M.D., had no idea that those with vaginas could also experience anal orgasms until she educated herself. "I was under the impression that you needed a prostate to have an orgasm from anal stimulation," Watson explains. "I've since discovered that this isn't true at all."

I just discovered something amazing: I can consistently experience orgasms from anal intercourse. Penis-in-anus penetration alone has been a great discovery for me, as I usually require clitoral and vaginal stimulation to climax. (Although I haven't tried it yet, I anticipate using a strap-on will be comparable.)

It's kind of forbidden to want to be fucked in the ass, which is a huge turn-on, but I've always loved anal sex. The same is true when pegging a partner.

The Anatomy of Pleasure

Compared to your typical PIV or strap-on for vaginal sex, this type of stimulation is different. Being extremely excited (warming up with a sex toy or oral sex works well) before being penetrated doggy style has been the secret to my orgasms. I occasionally play with my clit by reaching between my thighs, but it hasn't always been essential to achieve climax.

I no longer worry about creating a mess since it can and will happen no matter how well I prepare. Someone is most likely aware of what they're putting themselves into if they are willing to pierce my anus.

I've been able to enjoy the anus as an additional source of pleasure because of this no-fucks-given mentality.

According to Nicole Buratti, a Certified Pelvic Floor & Diastasis Recti Specialist, anal orgasm is another form of orgasm that women can love just as much as clitoral, vaginal, etc., but it's not for everyone.

Although there are many nerves in the penis and vagina, the anus has some of the highest concentrations of nerve endings. Why deny a lover or yourself another source of enjoyment?

It May Be Messy–That's OK

The problem is that the anus can naturally be dirty because it is also used for defecating. There are a few ways to be ready for anal play if you're anxious about creating a mess. Empty your bowels fully by going to the restroom. Next, perform an anal douche or wash the anus from the inside out with soap and water.

You can throw the Liberator Fascinator if you're still concerned. To protect your carpet or bedding, throw it down.

There's No One Way to Enjoy Anal Play

What one individual finds enjoyable may not be the same for another. The secret is to use lots of lubrication, talk to your partner, and move slowly. It's also acceptable to stop if anything feels strange or painful or if you don't want to continue. There might be some discomfort initially, but severe pain is a warning sign.

Use Lots of Lube

A common (and entirely legitimate) concern regarding anal penetration is that it will hurt to put anything as significant as a penis—or even a finger—into such a tiny opening.

68% of women believe that when it comes to anal intercourse, the more lubricant, the better, according to OkCupid. I have to have faith that my partner will move slowly, pay attention to my comfort, and explain every step (err, or inch) or the way because the anus is not a self-lubricating opening like the vagina is.

Take Your Time

When you're at ease and prepared, begin slowly and softly stimulating the region around the anus with your tongue or finger. Try easing one finger or the tip of a plug inside when you're aroused. You're not prepared if you have to force the muscles to open; they should do it naturally.

Find the A-Spot

It all comes down to locating and activating the anterior fornix, or "A-spot." According to Watson, the anterior fornix is usually situated five to six inches inside the vagina. The A-spot can be stimulated through your anus, despite being inside your vagina.

"I have had great results using vibrators, but I find it difficult to stimulate the A-spot through penile stimulation (anal sex) enough to bring myself to orgasm," Watson says.

To get me "warmed up" and closer to the orgasmic zone, my spouse usually uses a vibrator to begin our anal sex. He will first locate my A-spot, then increase the vibrations and move the toy in a circle around it. I'll urge him to stop when I start to feel more aroused and on the verge of an orgasm, and he'll insert his penis (after lubricating, of course). I've only been able to experience an orgasm with anal intercourse in this manner.

According to Watson, "Don't expect to have an orgasm the first time you stimulate your A-spot." "It took us quite a few attempts before I was able to get an orgasm."

The majority of people claim that when anal stimulation is coupled with additional touches on the clitoris or vulva, they experience orgasms during anal intercourse or penetration.

According to Amy Baldwin, a sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and co-host of the shameless sex podcast, "the best positions are those that provide easy access for fingers to touch and simultaneously rub or massage the genitals." "When fully warmed up, the receiver can access their clitoris while their partner is behind them in a doggy-style position, or it could be a missionary position with the receiver on top perpendicular from their partner."

Take Proper Precautions

Before switching from anal to vaginal penetration, replace any condoms you may be using. The same is true with condoms on sex toys with interchangeable orifices. Buratti points out that it's crucial to remember that once anything enters the anus, it might not be able to pass via any other openings. Bacteria in the anus are natural, but switching between anal and vaginal or oral sex might make diseases more likely.

Don't be Afraid to Experiment

I honestly love discovering new erotic pleasure sources and making my lovers feel fantastic. Therefore, try anal sex before dismissing it due to stigma, fear, or the so-called "ick factor." To locate a position that suits you, be willing to explore a range of them.

According to Buratti, spooning and doggy style are the ideal postures for anal intercourse. She or her partner can play with her clit while spooning, which increases the likelihood of cumming. Finding your rhythm can occasionally need a lot of fumbling and several attempts. It's also acceptable if you're not into anal intercourse. Sexual exploration shouldn't be boring or annoying; it should be enjoyable.