My Partner has a Praise Kink, What Can I Say?

Praise Kink Cheat Sheet: This is a list of things to say if your Partner has a Praise Kink but you're not very good at dirty talk.

Your Partner may have a praise kink if they are an auditory learner, look for affirmation, or say that words of affirmation are their love language: An erotic need to be praised to get off. It might not be difficult for any Shakespeare of the current era to placate a praising quirk. However, finding creative methods to thank your lover in bed can be intimidating if you're not good with words.

Don't worry. A talent for sonnet writing is unnecessary to satisfy your Partner's praise kink. Based on your Partner's personality type, here is a list of quick compliments you can use in the bedroom. Here are some compliments to have in your back pocket, regardless of whether the person is an active BDSM practitioner or just a romantic who wouldn't mind hearing you show them appreciation.

Praise Kink Cheat Sheet: Here's What To Say

Keep in mind that depending on your partner's or partnership's sexual orientation, any of these compliments could be changed. Cheers to praising!

For the bratty submissive

Here are some compliments to use when you tame your spouse, who is a bit of a brat or a submissive who enjoys misbehaving.

• Atta girl.
• When you don't get your way, you're sexy.
• Putting you in your place hurts me a lot.
• When you roll your eyes at me, I get drenched.
• You make it seem so good to be disrespectful.
• When you fight for me, you look so lovely.

For the body positive

When you're experiencing intense desire, your Partner wants to feel like sex personified. Use these remarks to show your appreciation for what makes them physically so alluring:

• When we fuck, you make the sexiest faces.
• You have such a soft ass.
• Your body's heat has been on my mind all day.
• It's unbelievable that this is all mine.
• Such a lovely pussy.
• I'm eager to introduce you.

For the action-oriented lover

Don't undervalue how you can take advantage of the praise kink. Use these buzzwords to express what you want and to capitalize on your Partner's love of praise if they want to be guided a little.

• When you're looking down on me, I adore it when you look me in the eyes. It's sensual.
• The way you stare at me while blowing me makes me very happy.
• For me, cum once more. You did a fantastic job.
• As simple as that.
• Please remain motionless so I can admire your beauty.
• Excellent, sweetie. Faster now.

For the pet play enthusiast

Regarding pet play, "good girl" and "good boy" are interchangeable. When interacting with your puppy, kitten, or pony, add these phrases to your repertoire for a little extra flair.

• I'm attracted to the way you whimper.
• I do not doubt that you can overcome your limitations. What a resilient young lady.
• You are such a cute little creature.
• Pet, you handle it so beautifully for me.
• When you're in need, you look so adorable.
• My favorite toy is you.

For the romantic

It's not always necessary to emphasize the "kink" in a compliment kink. Your Partner will feel much more loved if you use one of these statements.

• I'm pleased with you.
• You are a priceless gem.
• You provide me with much joy.
• With me, you're secure.
• You and the feelings you give me are irresistible.
• I appreciate you being who you are.

For the long-distance Partner

The erotic impact of praise need not be diminished by separation. To get them thinking, whip these out over text or during a Zoom play session.

• I'm dreaming about the way you touch yourself.
• You have such lovely voices. For me, groan.
• You're so tough, and I haven't touched you, which makes me happy.
• You've shown me such patience. Thank you.
• Please take a look at me. Well done, girl.
• Your penis is flawless. I wish I could swallow it.

For the humiliation fetishist

The praising of Kink and the humiliation fetish go hand in hand. You might increase the deterioration factor with your remarks by giving out the following compliments.

• For me, you're the ideal little slut.
• It's a pleasure using you.
• You have a knack for making your Master feel wonderful.
• On your knees, you look adorable.
• You're so cute when you wriggle.
• You're doing something quite sultry with your hips.
• A mischievous girl (or boy)

For the words of affirmation seeker

Your spouse may be leaning into their praise kink to receive the verbal affirmation that makes them feel good on the inside if they have identified words of affirmation as their love language. Here are a few simple ways to express your appreciation for them.

• You are the one person who could make me happy.
• The sensation of your tongue is incredible.
• I was meant to be with your body.
• Observe how nicely you accept me. You're flawless.
• I adore your familiarity with my body.
• You're so strong, fuck.

For the "Type A" submissive

You may require guidance on relinquishing control and giving in to your instincts. Use these praise kink alternatives to help your lover embrace their inner beast.

• When you lose control, you look so hot.
• That's all. Please give it up.
• Don't cum, good boys. You're a good boy, too.
• Princess, I love to make you feel good.
• Tiny bird, sing for me.
• Is it pleasant? You're worthy.
• Feel free, cat. Take charge.