Jerkoff Instruction (JOI)

Jerkoff instruction (JOI) refers to verbal and occasionally visual cues regarding when and how a guy should orgasm, if at all. Couples in the BDSM community frequently practice orgasm suppression, which includes jerkoff instruction. For vanilla couples, though, it can also be a part of foreplay. A typical abbreviation for Jerkoff instruction is JOI.

More About Jerkoff Instruction

A teacher teaches a man how to masturbate and occasionally demonstrates it during Jerkoff's class. Men are typically instructed on how hard or soft to jerk off, how quickly to stroke, and where to touch. To show the proper technique, the instructor may also utilize visual assistance, such as a vibrator or dildo. Jerkoff instruction can be divided into two primary categories: Jerkoff humiliation, which plays on submissive fetishes by making the guy feel unclean or embarrassed of his arousal and desire to masturbate, and Jerkoff encouragement, which is positive reinforcement that helps a male climax. The goal of jerkoff training may be to tease a man a little or to assist him come as quickly as feasible. If the man experiences an orgasm at all, the instructor may wish to prolong arousal and make him wait a long time for it. The man may frequently get near to orgasm by a technique known as edging, but he will never quite reach it. Because the man masturbating must cede some degree of authority to his instructor, Jerkoff's instruction can be an approachable way to test BDSM. However, because it only considers pleasure and not pain, it is a low-risk power exchange in comparison to many BDSM practices. A man may seek out this type of sexual gratification from other sources or enjoy jerkoff training with his spouse. Jerkoff instruction is a tactic used by certain sex workers. Jerkoff instruction can also be obtained from a variety of online sources, such as live video chats and videos saved on pornographic websites.