
How to use a vibrator for the first time
Are you new to vibrators?
There's no reason to feel ashamed because we were all alone. Although I love fingering fun (see fun fingering techniques), using a vibrator to masturbate seems to give me greater and stronger climaxes.
The prospect of inserting a buzzy device into your ass or pussy may make you a little nervous if you have never used one before, but don't worry—a beginner's how-to guide for vibrators is here!
Introduction to playing with vibrators
Vibrators can be used for solo sex or to improve play with a partner. They are available in a variety of sizes and styles.
My toy chest, which I've accumulated over the years, has dual, internal, and external vibrators.
Internal vibrators, like thrusting vibrators, are placed into your vag or butt, while external vibrators, like clitoral vibrators, are put into your outside parts, such as the clit.
Some, like the butt plug, are made specifically for bum fun, while G-spot vibrators are curved or have rounded ends.
The rabbit vibrator, which doubles the delight by providing both internal and exterior pleasure, is my favorite. Sure, please!
Know your vibrator
You should familiarize yourself with your new toy before using a vibrator for masturbation if you've never done it before.
Basic vibrators with basic controls are the best for beginners.
Make sure you experiment with the buttons and read the instructions. To experience the pulsations, hold the vibrator against your bare skin, flick through the settings, and become familiar with the on/off button.
You can start working as soon as you've figured out your buzzy companion.
Make sure your vibrator is fully charged before you start tearing things up.
Nothing is worse than getting wet, experiencing the moment's thrill, and then having your toy grind to a standstill because its juice has run out!
Set the setting by locating a quiet area, turning down the lights, and getting comfortable if you're a worried novice.
Using your vibrator is all about what feels nice; there are no hard and fast rules.
I have foreplay before I have solo sex, just like with partner sex.
The vibrator experience is enhanced by foreplay, which puts me in the mood and gets me nice and wet.
I still like to use my preferred water-based sex lubricant even while I'm dripping.
I just find that it makes it easier for me to fuck myself by reducing friction and adding extra glide and slide.
Choose the one that works best for you and your device from the range of slippery materials available, including water-based lubricants, oil-based lubricants, silicone-based lubricants (which are incompatible with silicone toys), and hybrid lubricants (a combination of water and silicone).
Fun ways to play with your vibrator
There are numerous applications for your vibrator.
Try spreading your legs, bending your knees, and reclining on your back to flex your clit.
Start gently and gradually rubbing and caressing your clit with the toy, increasing the pressure if necessary. For extra indulgence, you can touch yourself or fondle your tits simultaneously.
You might enjoy the squat if you enjoy intense vaginal stimulation. It's also healthy for your thighs!
After opening your legs and squatting down, put your vibrator in and experiment with the toy's pulsations and movements.
In addition to hitting your G-spot, you should be able to get a climax that makes your knees shake.
You are also free to take a ride.
To feel your vibrator pulse, try lowering yourself onto it. You can become energized by letting the vibrations tease your lips and clit; you don't have to force it in.
Hold the vibrator steady and shove on it like you're riding a beautiful large cock if you want more.
To facilitate your orgasm, touch your clit and rub your nipples.
A vibrator can also be used for backdoor enjoyment.
This works well in the dog position, and you'll finish up with your butt nice and high in the air if you lower your face to the pillow.
After tickling your butthole with the vibrator, put it in for some fun up the butt. As you play with your ass, you can touch your clit or rub your pussy with your other hand.
When life gets hectic, I find that masturbating helps me relax and de-stress. It's also a fantastic opportunity to learn about your body, discover what turns you on, and increase your self-confidence.
I find jillin' off in front of the mirror especially stimulating, though it might not be for everyone.
Perhaps it's the voyeur/exhibitionist in me, but I usually get hot when I show off and watch myself at the same time.
Of course, solo play isn't the only use for your reliable vibrator. Additionally, you can use your toy to enhance your sexual life.
Using a vibrator with a partner for the first time
However, before introducing your new gadget, have a conversation with your spouse. Don't just surprise them with a buzzing cock toy; they might not like it!
By teasing your clit or butthole while your partner thrusts his cock into you, you can utilize your vibrator to increase your penis in vaginal (PIV) intercourse.
Additionally, you can use it to tease your pussy while you blow him (since you're giving pleasure, you might as well get some too).
There's nothing like having your ass thud while simultaneously playing with your clit or nipples, and my girlfriend and I love anal, and adding a vibrator to the mix amplifies that.
Therefore, if you have considered purchasing a toy, I suggest it.
Before advancing to more complicated devices, start with a vibrator that is easy for beginners to use, or use one with your significant other.
Soon, you'll be cumming like there's no tomorrow, juicing, moaning with pleasure, and frigging yourself with style.
Bid farewell to vibrator virginity and welcome to masturbation mastery.