Help! I need some foolproof hand job tips!

He will lead the way if you touch him and listen to his reaction. You should believe him if he says something feels fantastic. In addition, I have nine tips that guys have told me. They should assist you in broadening your skill set in manual jobs.

Draw It Out

Begin slowly. Incredibly slow. Use long, gentle strokes to touch him through his trousers. Put your hand on his inner thighs. Take a minute to pause and kiss. Put him in a panic.

Lube Up

Try using a variety of lubricants, lots of them. I advise experimenting with silicone and water-based lubricants. Their consistency varies significantly from one another. Let him choose his favorite.

Play Show and Tell

Ask him to demonstrate his preferred method of contact. Please take note of his actions and get tips from him. You may make this discussion as explicit and filthy as you want it to be, or it can be wonderful and intimate. It all comes down to your individuality. Put your hand on his penis and place his palm over yours, asking him to lead your touch if he is too embarrassed to demonstrate how he touches himself.

Learn New Techniques

You can utilize your hands in a variety of ways. Some of the most suggested methods may make you uncomfortable or silly, yet they make others quite happy. All you have to do is explore. Consider adopting what I call "dumping out the glass of water." From the bottom to the tip, pump his shaft. Flip your palm over as if you were pouring out a glass of water as you get to the tip of his penis. Next, return your hand to the base of his penis. Please bring it back up and turn your hand at the tip, right-side up. By doing this, you incorporate his cock's head into the hand job by engulfing it in your entire hand. The majority of guys adore this method.

Use Two Hands

You can apply pressure to his perineum or cup his balls with one hand, or you can use both on his shaft. Another option is to use your thumb and index finger to grasp the base firmly in a ring shape. Then, use your other hand to pump his shaft.

Play With Your Position

You can be in a position of power by touching him beneath the table at a restaurant, standing over him while he's sitting, getting between his legs, and staying fully clothed. At the same time, he's naked, blindfolded, or having him on his hands and knees while you reach around and take his orgasm. You can be on your knees, and he stands over you in a subservient stance. My argument is that every sex act, including hand jobs, may be used to play with power.

Pay Attention

Feel his reaction. Observe his physique. Please pay attention to his breath. This is for changes in muscle tension, shivering, goose bumps, arching back, curling toes, or facial expressions. Pay attention to words, groans, moans, and sighs. You can also ask him yes-or-no questions to find out if what you are doing feels nice. You can ask him if he wants it faster or slower, with more pressure, less pressure, etc. After you've finished playing, ask him what went well. In addition to offering you knowledge, this might be a playful method for him to express his passions.

Take It All the Way

When men give themselves hand jobs and they are ready to climax, they will make sure to maintain their hand on their shaft and move until the orgasm is finished, according to a familiar story they tell me. Women sometimes let go before their partners have finished ejaculating, even though these final five or six strokes might be among the most fulfilling.

Get to Know His Anatomy

Our bodies are adorable and simple. Acquire a greater comprehension of pleasure anatomy, both yours and his, by reading my book, Sex with the Lights On: 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered. Remember that the experience of a hand job may be different if he has his foreskin. For more advice, see Circumcision and Sexuality.

Also...

Every time I discuss pleasure, I like to clarify that I'm speaking broadly. Each person's sexual response is so different. Your companion can veto anything I say. His vascular and nerve structure, reaction, size, and shape are distinct. Therefore, asking him is the most excellent method to find out how to delight him.