Binding Spoon Position

In the Binding Spoon position, the receiving partner is penetrated from behind as both partners lie on their sides.

The Binding Spoon position is a variation of spooning that provides varying degrees of contact and sensation based on where each partner positions their arms and legs.

The receiving partner raises their upper leg in the Binding Spoon and either holds it up or re-wraps it around the body of the penetrating partner. Then, they might advance their own top leg between their partner's wide legs. Do this as best you can!

From here, both lovers can touch and further stimulate each other by wrapping their arms around each other's bodies. Even though it is difficult for lovers to look each other in the eyes, the Binding Spoon position is regarded as extremely intimate since it allows for a great deal of skin-to-skin contact.

People of all sexual orientations can benefit from the Binding Spoon position because penetration can be accomplished with either a penis or a strap-on dildo. For both vaginal and anal penetration, spoon positions are very effective because of their comfort and simplicity. It's also OK if spooning is a simpler option.

Both partners can use their arms and legs to hold each other closer and possibly thrust together more strongly if the receiving person wraps their top leg around their partner's body. Additionally, partners can manually stimulate the receiving partner's clitoris, anus, penis, or nipples using their hands. The receiving partner may even be able to reach and touch the penetrating partner's buttocks or even their anus for extra sensations, depending on how tall and lengthy each partner's arms are.

For the receiving partner in particular, sex toys are a great complement to the Binding Spoon position. For clitoral and nipple stimulation, a vibrator (such as the Wild Flower Enby 2, LELO Smart Wand Medium, or Satisfyer Multifun 3) can be used. For a double penetration experience, a butt plug can be added if the receiver is being penetrated vaginally. It is strongly advised to have a conversation regarding comfort and accessibility requirements for people with disabilities before attempting these (and all?) sex positions.

An athletic and seductive variation of the spoon position, the binding spoon position can be employed for either anal or vaginal intercourse. The partner being penetrated raises one leg in this sex position, or they may even raise and wrap the upper leg behind the penetrating partner. The receiving partner can also put their upper arm around the penetrating partner to bring the couple closer.

The receiving partner's front body is free to engage in other types of activity when in the Binding Spoon position. The penetrating partner in the picture above is a vibrator that satisfies the receiving partner's nipples. To stimulate the receiving partner's clitoris or penis, the penetrating partner may additionally utilize a sex device, such as a wand massager, penis vibrator, or penile stroker.

We recognize that if one partner has chronic pain or impairments, it may be challenging to reach this posture fully.

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The fact that the various spooning sex positions are typically more approachable and comfortable is one of their apparent benefits. They are great for anyone who wishes to start their day with sensual fun and wake up in a certain mood, surrounded by cozy, warm bodies wrapped in blankets. People with disabilities and/or chronic pain also benefit significantly from them. When you're done and don't have to get up for the day, a basic spoon position is a terrific way to fall back asleep because it's close, easy, and requires little movement. People with impairments who wake up feeling a certain way but cannot move around much can also benefit significantly from a basic spoon posture.

The Binding Spoon position is better for people who wake up feeling ready to rock because it's a little more athletic and potentially more aggressive. If you have a disability, it is essential to determine if the Binding Spoon posture is a suitable and accessible choice for your play.

The binding spoon position is perfect for adding toys and BDSM play aspects since it makes a lot more of the bodies, especially the receivers, available for stimulation. For reaching around and adding more clitoral pleasure, a wand vibrator is a great complement. It is possible to apply a penis sleeve during anal penetration. To capitalize on impromptu sensations brought on by movement, chain-attached breast clamps can be fastened to both lovers or even to one another.

Another excellent approach to incorporate some personal hand-based BDSM action is with the binding sex position. For disabled people whose hands are the most accessible body parts, this position is perfect. Each partner can use their hands to bring the sweet pleasure of pain into this position, even though the close quarters may make it challenging to introduce bondage or impact equipment.

Acts like spanking, scratching, choking, and tormenting the nipples can be added to penetration because each partner has a free hand. If you have a disability or persistent sickness that prevents you from engaging in penetrative play, you can concentrate only on hand play. To guarantee ongoing consent and enjoyment from these more difficult activities, it is crucial to set safe words and sexy accessibility needs in advance and to check in with your partner at all times because you are not facing each other.