Alignment Technique

We look at a traditional go-to sex position this week: missionary with a twist! Because it emphasizes clitoral stimulation by aligning both couples' bodies to provide primarily external stimulation, with some penetration if desired, this shape is also more formally called the modified coital alignment method (CAT). CAT is all about vertical movement and rubbing rather than in-and-out thrusting, which changes the emphasis from vaginal penetration to producing enjoyable friction for clitoral stimulation (often with the clitoris grinding on the penis or toy shaft).

Since this position isn't really about penetration, it can also help suppress premature ejaculation, which promotes longer-lasting sex and strengthens your bond. This position is excellent for women and vulva owners who struggle to climax through penetration alone.

To assume position, the bottom partner must lie on their back and spread their legs wide, keeping them slightly apart. When they move on top between their partner's legs, the second partner's torso should be somewhat higher than in the standard missionary position. In general, it's simpler to connect the shoulders of the bottom partner with the chest of the top partner.

More friction between your genitals will result from the top partner carefully shifting their weight onto the bottom partner after you are in alignment. Using only the tip, the top partner can then gradually enter the bottom partner until the shaft of the penis or toy rests against the vaginal wall. Then, while the shaft brushes against the clitoris, start swaying up and down to permit a little vaginal penetration.

All sex positions are improved by communication, but in this shape, it is essential since, in contrast to other sex positions, it is best enjoyed at a moderate, controlled pace. Since every person's body is different, trying to join two distinct bodies by determining the precise alignment could take some time and trial and error. Have fun and take pleasure in this procedure! Once your alignment is excellent, you should use the coital alignment technique, which is well-known for a reason. Try a vibrating cock ring like the S-Ring from Lego if you're searching for a toy to add to the collection and help you master this shape! This ring adds ten vibration patterns to the mix to add some excitement. It also has a modest profile that won't get in the way.