Best Oral Sex Positions When You Want to Get Wild
You are already a master of the art of dining out, skilled at analingus, and a master of fellatio, but that doesn't mean you can't employ our most significant oral sex positions.
The popularity of oral sex can be attributed to many factors. While controlling the action, the giver not only gets to unwind, but they also have a front-row seat to all of their partner's groans, breath catches, and trembling! It makes sense that one of the most common sex actions that couples engage in is oral sex!
That same popularity can eventually make it seem a little stale. Similar to sexual activity, many couples have tried-and-true positions that they may not venture too far from. That's perfectly OK! If you have discovered sex positions that are comfortable for both the provider and the recipient, don't discard them because oral sex is all about making sure the giver is at ease and the receiver is having fun!
However, the simplest method to add some adventure to your oral sex life is to vary your oral sex position a little. A simple change in body alignment can transform your oral routine into an entirely different experience!
Assisted Queen Oral Sex Position
The Assisted Queen oral sex position plus a little bondage made "queening" during oral sex much more exciting. During receiver-on-top oral sex, the giver's wrists and the receiver's ankles can be linked together using the Liberator Black Label Wedge. In addition to being physically thrilling, the extra stimulation from the cuffs can give the person receiving it—who is "unable to go anywhere and forced to provide pleasure"—an erotic mental boost.
Great for Giving Oral to: Anuses, Vulvas.
Modify It By substituting pillows for a liberator wedge. Although the illustration depicts the Liberator Black Label Wedge (complete with bondage points!), the receiving partner may need to use some core strength to maintain their upright posture due to the 27-degree angle. This can be lessened by having the receiving partner bend forward onto their hands and knees or by replacing the wedge with a cushion and your own bondage cuffs.
Try It With: a slight power shift. You can play with your kinky roles and personalities in this oral sex position since the way your bodies are positioned can genuinely create a sense of dominance and submission. Gentle impact play may also be an option in this situation since the receiving partner can simply "discipline" the giving partner if they don't give the desired amount of pleasure by using a gentle impact play toy (such as the Sportsheets Mahogany Flogger, Studded Paddle, Saffron Acrylic Paddle, and Ruff Doggie Styles Double-Sided Heart Paddle).
Taste of Bliss 69 Oral Sex Position
Are you fed up with the conventional, stereotypical 69 oral sex positions? Why not try the version from Taste of Bliss? It is easier for both participants to get into the proper position for simultaneous oral sex because of the receiving partner's compact, flexible stance.
For a partner who requires precise stimulation to orgasm, the Taste of Bliss 69 position can also put the top partner in a favourable position to control the depth, angle, and pace of the oral sex they receive.
Great for Giving Oral to: Anuses, Vulvas, and Penises.
Modify It By: To lessen the tension on the lower back, place a bolster beneath the hips of the bottom partner. To ease the strain on the bottom partner and support a small amount of body weight, the Liberator Jaz or Dame Pillo can be softly slipped beneath the hips. Before you put yourself in this position, I also advise stretching. The bottom partner may be pushed to the limit!
Try It With: Anal play might be an excellent fit for the Taste of Bliss 69 oral sex position. Mid-play can be feasible when both couples have their butts in the air and anal toys, such as prostate massagers or anal beads, are added or removed. Although I assume you both want to concentrate more on the oral sex you're having, I suggest an anal toy like the XR Brands Thump-It, Nexus Simul8, b-Vibe Snug Plugs, Lovense Edge 2, or b-Vibe Rimming Plug that gives you the majority of the pleasure without requiring any manipulation.
Film and Flutter Oral Sex Position
In certain oral sex positions, one of the drawbacks of being the "giving" partner is that you may have to wait to experience your pleasure. With the Film and Flutter Oral Sex Position, you can cut down on waiting. The donor experiences their sensations while the recipient receives additional feelings thanks to the enchantment of hands-free sex devices.
Additionally, this position is excellent for spontaneous oral sex that breaks up your recent TV program binge!
Great for Giving Oral to: Penises and Vulvas.
Modify It By: This position's bent-over angle can be a little taxing on the receiver's back and neck, particularly during a long practice. Stacking pillows, bolsters, or sex furniture beneath the receiving partner might lessen the amount of bend needed. However, it could still be preferable to move out of this oral sex position as soon as the receiver starts to feel the burn.
Try It With: Hands-free sex devices are a must for this oral sex position! It is entirely up to you which specific sex toy you select. Any hands-free sex toy will work, however the ones shown are the Wild Flower Enby 2.
Shoulder Stand Oral Sex Position
Are you up for a challenge? The crazy sex position you're searching for could be the Shoulder Stand Oral Sex Position. The receiving partner assumes a shoulder stand in which they place most of their lower body weight on top of their partner's shoulders. This one can be difficult, as I mentioned! Prepare yourself for an intense core workout.
You might add the Shoulder Stand Oral Sex Position more for bragging rights than for enjoyment, in contrast to other oral sex positions on this list. Many receiving partners might not be able to relax enough to orgasm in this position due to the static hold needed to do this. But it's all right! Just take pleasure in the position for as long as you want to, and if you wish for an orgasm but it's not coming easy, prepare to move to another oral sex position.
Great for Giving Oral to: Penises, Anuses, and Vulva.
Modify It By: include a sex swing. The Shoulder Stand Position requires a great deal of strength from both partners. You can use a sex swing to make it easier. To assist in supporting a portion of the receiving partner's weight, place the hip pad of a sex swing beneath their hips. The leg pads could also be positioned beneath the knees to carry even more weight. This will lessen the amount of weight that each person must support to do the Shoulder Stand Oral Sex Position.
Try It With a mirror and high heels! Do you both have a kink in your high heels? When the receiving partner is wearing high heels, the Shoulder Stand Oral Sex Position appears much more appetizing. A significant "oomph" is added to the already attractive appearance of this oral sex position by the heels wrapped around the giver's body!
Airborne Oral Sex Position
I'm pretty sure that adding a sex swing immediately increases the excitement of your oral sex. It's sex and a swing, after all! A lot of things have already made you fall in love!
By using the sex swing to make the giver more comfortable during extended sessions, the Airborne Oral Sex Position enhances that. Though this position may seem complicated, it is incredibly comfortable because it allows you to change the height and position of the receiving partner and add more furniture to make the giver more comfortable.
Additionally, we have a comprehensive list of sex swing sex positions to explore if you wish to carry on with your sex swing investigation after this!
(To make it easier to reach all of the vulva, we advise vulva-owning recipients to lean back or use a sex sling option.)
Great for Giving Oral to: Penises and Vulvas.
Modify It By Adding furnishings and adjusting the receiver's height! To lessen the giver's neck strain, elevate or lower the receiving partner by adjusting the sex swing straps. Additionally, the provider may decide to sit on shorter or taller pieces of furniture. Baby, it's all about those changes!
Try It With: For the giving partner, a few sex toys. The giving partner's hands are completely open in the Airborne Oral Sex Position. Using a sex toy on the receiving partner can be a great way to give their mouth a break during a marathon session or for self-pleasure! Larger sex toys like penis strokers, rabbit vibrators, or wand massagers will fit perfectly because there is a good amount of room.
Tongue Tied Oral Sex Position
Oral sex and bondage? For me, those seem like all the components of the ideal oral sex positions!
By using suction cup bondage cuffs to extend that bondage into the shower, the Tongue Tied Oral Sex Position goes one step further. The receiving partner experiences both the giving partner's pleasure and the sexiness of bondage. Remember that your water heater most likely has a limited water supply, so plan your next course of action!
Although the Tongue Tied Oral Sex Position is demonstrated in the shower, you are under no obligation to use it there, particularly if your kink gear is somewhat water-phobic. Anywhere there is an open wall, you can do this sex position!
Great for Giving Oral to: Penises, Anuses, and Vulvas (if the recipient looks back).
Modify It By: Not everyone is suited to standing for extended periods. The receiving partner could sit on the floor with their hands fastened to the wall behind them and their knees wide if that were the case. It would be similar to the Flag Stick Oral Sex Position, except that the receiving spouse would be leaning against a wall rather than lying down.
Try It With: Most kink gear lacks a simple wall-mounting mechanism. But over-the-door restraints work! To secure the restraints, they use a closed door as a bondage point. This might be an excellent method to ensure the receiving partner is affixed to the wall behind them outside a shower.
Butler Oral Sex Position
Who said it had to be hard to engage in crazy oral sex positions? That isn't the case, as demonstrated by the Butler Oral Sex Position. To make oral sex feel fresh again, the Butler Oral Sex position instead depends on a fresh viewpoint. Rimming works best when done from behind, but with a bit of ingenuity, you might be able to reach the vulva from behind. The receiving partner can always turn around and face the provider to access new parts.
Additionally, both participants' hands are left open in the Butler Oral Sex Position. Engage in some passionate hand-holding, or use the free hands to stimulate either partner more. (Maybe to add even more pleasure, we may suggest holding a remote control for a sex toy.)
Great for Giving Oral to: Penises, Anuses, and Vulva.
Modify It By: Long periods of standing can not be suitable for the receiving partner's orgasm. If so, think about having the receiver lean against the wall to change the Butler position into the Back Tackle position. Additionally, if the from-behind position is hot but standing for it isn't, you can switch to the Up the Middle posture.
Try It With: Toys for Electrosex! The pleasure of this position can be increased by adding a few electronic gadgets since both parties have their hands free, and the receiver can even easily carry a control box. To ensure that the giver's performance remains at its peak, the receiving partner could, for instance, handhold the Kinklab Neon Wand and give their thighs an erotic shock.
Doubling Threesome Group Sex Position
If I didn't put at least one threesome sex position here, I would be remiss! After all, group sex may be an option for you as well if your oral sex positions are becoming out of control! (You're in luck because we also offer some additional fantastic group sex positions!)
The Double Threesome position is the oral sex position for group sex. Everyone in the Doubling Threesome position is wholly concentrated on oral sex and is either giving or receiving oral sex. It resembles a more intricate 69 position in specific ways!
Great for Giving Oral to Anything!
Modify It By: use blankets and pillows. Finding the most comfortable angles for each individual can be challenging because everybody is different in height and size. Blankets and pillows can be pretty beneficial. While pillows beneath the kneeling partner's knees can lessen the need to tap out early owing to fallen-asleep feet, pillows beneath the laying partner's head can support the neck.
Try It With: A little more sensational play! With so many people, sounds, and views to take in, it might be extremely hot to deprive your body of feelings! Think about using vampire gloves, gags, blindfolds, nipple clamps, and other devices to enhance the sensations of everything that is happening.
Just Get Creative!
These are only a few of the top oral sex positions for getting wild. Make your own oral sex positions by using these as a starting point. It's as easy as moving your body parts around so they fit together in different ways. The two of you are the only ones who genuinely understand your bodies, so your ideal oral sex position might be a few trial sessions away!
Remember to try out different upgrades and accessories as well. Even while oral sex with only two bodies can be fantastic, you have additional play options when you add accessories. Choices such as:
- Furniture for sex
- Sexual swings
- Sexual toys
- Lube with a flavor
- Plugs for the butt
- Slings for sex
- Chairs for queening
- Sexual stools
Start with these examples and begin creating your own if determining the optimal oral sex positions is on your to-do list!
