What's the best lube for masturbation if you have a penis?

I appreciate you posing this query. Lube can be used to avoid chafing and discomfort during masturbation, thus it's not exclusively for partnered sex. Additionally, body lotion typically doesn't work very well as lubrication because it wears off quickly, despite all the jokes about it on bedside tables.

Albolene, marketed as a face cleanser, can be used as sex lube (and has been for many years) if you're uncomfortable having something labeled explicitly as such in your bedroom or bathroom. Another common home ingredient that doubles as a lubricant is coconut oil. Coconut oil has antibacterial, antifungal, and anti-inflammatory qualities, unlike other oils like olive oil, which can weaken the skin's protective layer. The best coconut oil is virgin.

Just keep in mind that oil dissolves latex barriers, such as dental dams or condoms, so if you're switching to partnered sex, wash your latex thoroughly and use a different lubricant.

What about lubricants designed with sex in mind? Depending on your priorities, yes. Silicone lubes like Shine Silicone Lube or Ultralube are your best option if you want something durable that won't wear off. You might have to wash it off afterwards, and be careful not to get it on your floor (it's slippery) or your linens (it stains!). Also, avoid this type of lubrication if you're using silicone toys because it can degrade the substance.

Water-based lubes like Sassy Sliquid or Dame Alu are easy to clean up and work with various toys if you don't care much about how long your lube lasts (which isn't necessary because you can add more). After applying it, add extra lubricant, water, or saliva if you feel dry again.

Most lubricants available at your neighborhood pharmacy are silicone or water-based and are suitable. Shower materials like shampoo and soap can irritate your genitalia, so stay away from them.

Although silicone lubricant has a better chance of surviving the water, it is advisable to avoid masturbating in the shower at all because the water will wash it off.

Enjoy yourselves!