Top Harnesses for Strap-On Play

Are you prepared to use strap-on play to its full potential? Everybody (and every physique) may find a harness that suits them thanks to the various models available. The most well-liked strap-on harness styles are included below, along with our top options for each category, which strap-on enthusiasts and sex educators have approved!

Classic Strap-On Harnesses

The traditional strap-on harness, which is modeled after the jock strap, has two or three straps that fit over the waist and thighs to secure your dildo over the pubic mound. This allows it to stretch in the same position on the body as a penis would. These timeless designs are ideal for strap-on adventurers of all skill levels since the adjustable straps offer additional support according to your body's form.

Low Rider Harness

This classic leather harness design is the first thing that springs to mind when I think of the term "strap on"; it's essentially the stereotypical picture of a harness. The brass buckles provide a secure fit for a range of waist sizes (waists 30" to 44"), while the soft leather straps mold to the body for a pleasant fit. Because the O-ring, which secures your dildo in place, is replaceable, you may alter it to accommodate any dildo girth you like.

Entry Level Strap-On

This straightforward harness design is ideal for novice strap-on tops, as the name suggests. The thigh straps can be adjusted to allow the harness base to lie higher or lower on your body, depending on your preferred posture. The straps are four-way adjustable to accommodate waists up to 60". This harness is fantastic for finding your ideal strapping experience because it has a replaceable O-ring and costs less than two San Francisco cocktails.

SpareParts Joque Cover Harness

How can I love you, Joque? There are many ways, so let me count them. With its buttery-soft, lightweight material and incredibly adaptable nylon straps that fasten with Velcro and slide buckles, this harness is the ideal combination of a traditional jock-style harness and a pair of underwear. It allows you to strap in quickly in an emergency. This harness works with both double-ended dildos and your typical strap-on dildo since the cover slips back to reveal the sewn-in O-ring from both sides. Bonus: when you wear it, the thigh straps somewhat elevate your cheeks because they sit just beneath your bum.

Brief-Style Harnesses

Brief-style harnesses are ideal for slipping into something comfortable and practical. Similar in design to your favorite underwear, but with a stronger waistband and an O-ring sewn in for your dildo, this model is more versatile and may be used under clothes like your regular underwear. It's also ideal for packing. As they say, you don't need to prepare if you're already prepared.

Contour Harness

This harness, which is made of incredibly soft and elastic fabric, has a timeless silhouette that fits all body types and is appropriate for all-day wear. The elastic waistband is strong and flexible, keeping you in place whether you're pegging or packing, and the lightweight, breathable material wicks away perspiration to keep you feeling fresh.

Tomboii Fabric Boxer Brief Harness

For those who want a little more coverage from their harness, the Tomboii Boxer Brief Harness is a chic and seductive option. You may adjust the height and location of your dildo, or use both at once for some DP (double penetration) action, thanks to two elastic O-rings that are subtly concealed beneath the front flap. A small, hidden pocket inside is also ideal for holding lubricant packets, condoms, dental dams, or bullet vibes.

Fit Harness Fishnet

With its flirty cut and cozy, elastic fishnet pattern, this cheeky little number is ideal for flaunting your assets (pun intended). By inserting bullet vibes, internal pockets above and below the sewn-in O-ring give the wearer and/or receiver more sensation and increase the stimulation level during strap-on activity.

Alternative Harnesses

Strap-ons aren't only for the waist, did you know that? There is no need for hip thrusts while wearing alternative harnesses on different body parts for aesthetic, accessibility, and mobility purposes, multiple penetration exploration, finding novel positions, or developing inventive ways to enjoy strap-on play.

Handy Strap-On Harness

Because it allows you to keep your strap close at hand without worrying about it slipping at the worst time, this harness is revolutionary for solo or partnered play. Excellent for people who might require assistance with their grip or for anyone who wishes to maintain finger mobility (hello, clit stim) while using their preferred dildo. This leather harness is adjustable and can be worn on the palm, at the knuckles, on the back of the hand, or on the left or right.  

Ultra Thigh Strap-on Harness

In terms of adaptability, this thigh harness is ideal. With its 17" to 32" circumference, this soft yet durable neoprene harness may be strapped around your arm, knee, thigh, pillow, column, or anything else you can think of! For some penetration while grinding or tribbing play, wear it around the upper thigh. You may also strap it around your pillow and hump as much as you want, wrap it around a knee, and have a partner go on all fours as you stand behind them.