Top 10 Tied-Up Sex Positions
Getting a little wild in the bedroom is perfectly acceptable. The world of BDSM has evolved from taboo to essentially conventional over the last few decades, particularly with the 2011 release of "50 Shades of Grey." Indeed, according to a recent survey, at least 50% of people have attempted BDSM in real life, while 93% of men and 96% of women have dreamed about some aspect of it previously. It's difficult to deny how stimulating it may be to be bound by your lover (or vice versa) to examine the vulnerability and Dom/sub power dynamics that bondage fosters.
Our top ten favorite bondage sex positions are included in this blog, but if you're new to bondage, we encourage you to read over some of our other blogs before you start tying your spouse to the headboard.
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Mission: Possibly
Difficulty Level: novice
Supplies: Ankle and Wrist Restraints
How To: Mission: Possible is arguably the easiest position for bondage novices to learn, much like missionary is one of the simplest to do during intercourse. Just have partner 1 open their legs, restrain their ankles at the bottom of the bed, and restrain their wrists above their head as they lie on their back. Then, in true missionary fashion, partner two triumphs.
Hot tip: For this role, our Bed, Bondage, and Beyond product is ideal! For a sensual, stretched-out position, place the soft cuffs at the head and foot of the bed and slide the adjustable straps under any size mattress.
Controlling Cowgirl
Difficulty Level: Novice
Supplies: Ankle and Wrist Restraints
How To: As in "Mission: Impossible," place partner one on their back with wrist and ankle restraints. After that, looking forward or backward, the other partner will straddle partner 1.
Hot Tip: Tools are necessary for every cowgirl to tame her bucking bronco. When things get out of control, try hitting the spot.
Freaky Frogger
Difficulty Level: Novice
Supplies: Limitations on the Wrist
How To: With their wrists bound over their head, have partner one lie stomach down. Then, when partner 2 enters from behind, raise their hips while keeping their legs open and knees bent beneath them.
Hot Tip: To keep partner 1's legs open and all yours, you can also utilize shackles divided by a pole on each leg.
Dominating Doggy
Difficulty Level: Novice
Supplies: Ankle and Wrist Restraints
How To: Partner 1 will be on their knees with their hips up, in the same downward position as Freaky Frogger. However, as partner two enters from behind, bind their ankles together this time and then constrain their wrists on either side of their ankles behind their thighs.
Hot Tip: This is the ideal location for playing backdoor. Consider using an anal toy like Midnight Desire, which has four beads that let you build gradually to an incredible finale.
Stand and Deliver
Difficulty Level: In between
Supplies: Ankle and Wrist Restraints
How To: Partner 1 should stand and stoop at the waist. Then, fasten each wrist to its corresponding ankle side while keeping the feet shoulder-width apart. Partner 2 comes in from the rear.
Hot Tip: Use two sets of our Onyx Handcuffs for this position: one for the left wrist and ankle, and another for the right wrist and ankle! Because each handcuff has detachable clasps, you can wear them on your ankles, wrists, bed frames, and more!
The Hot Seat
Difficulty Level: In between
Supplies: Chair, Ankle, and Wrist Restraints
How To: Partner 1 should sit in a chair with their wrists behind their back and their ankles tied to each front chair leg. Partner 2 can try interrogation roleplay, tease their partner with toys, receive oral favors, or penetrate!
Hot Tip: Blindfolding partner one will enhance their other senses while keeping them in the dark about what partner two has planned, making the Hot Seat even more exciting.
The Frequent Flyer
Difficulty Level: In between
Supplies: Regular Traveler
How To: Adjust to the appropriate length after fastening the padded rest behind the neck and the padded cuffs to the ankles.
Hot Tip: Partner 2 can grab hold of the seat and tilt Partner 1's hips as they enter from between the legs for maximum control and delight.
The Sexy Spreader
Difficulty Level: More sophisticated
Supplies: Limitations on the Wrist
How To: Bind partner 1's wrists out of the way so they can raise both legs in a V form toward their head while lying on their back. As they thrust, have partner 2 come in from above, pulling their ankles back (comfortably).
Hot Tip: Try our Sexy Spreader, which has adjustable straps for each ankle and calf to keep legs securely spread and to keep partner 1's legs over their head.
Tongue-Tied
Difficulty Level: More sophisticated
Supplies: Rope Limitations
How To: As partner 1 is on their stomach, bind their ankles together while bending their knees so that they are close to their butt. After that, tie them together with their tied ankles and restrict their wrists behind their back. Ankles and wrists shouldn't come into contact; a comfortable length of rope should keep them safe yet apart.
Hot Tip: Try using oral favors as well, even though this is an excellent position for partner 2 to penetrate! To help partner 1 with their gag reflux and to keep their throat relaxed, give them a pea-sized quantity of Great Head.
Over the Moon
Difficulty Level: More sophisticated
Supplies: Chair and Rope Restraints
How To: Have partner 1 place their knees on the floor and lie chest down over a chair. Attach their upper arms to the other two chair legs and each knee to the bottom of the other two.
Hot Tip: Attach a rope to each ankle and bend them up toward the thigh, or bind wrists together to maximize constriction and susceptibility.
Are you trying to figure out how to make any bondage experience more intense? To add to the fun, think about including a toy!