The 6 Best Sex Positions for Morning Sex

You can enjoy your connection and avoid being late for work by using quicker, simpler morning sex positions. Sex gadgets can help move things ahead quickly so that everyone has a fantastic time!

Morning sex is a great way to start the day. In addition to being much more enjoyable, it's far more connecting than waking up to doomscrolling on your phone!

No companion? No issue! With a bit of morning masturbation, you can still enjoy all the advantages of morning sex! Before you even get out of bed in the morning, you may rejuvenate your body, reconnect with your sexuality, and reenergize yourself for the rest of the day with a self-pleasure session!

We offer the advice (and sex positions!) to make morning sex exciting, no matter how you choose to do it.

The ideal positions for morning sex are as follows:

Note from the editor: Since each person and body is unique, there are no objective "best" morning sex positions. Find many more in our collection of sex positions if these aren't working for you!

Cross Sex Position

When you want to continue unwinding while still half asleep, the cross-sex position is ideal. The receiving partner lies on their back, and the penetrating partner lies on their side, moving perpendicular to each other to enter. Next, get your hips in line and start moving. And that's it!

The penetrating partner only needs to move their hips forward and backward softly to enable entry because the bed underneath them supports the weight of both people. It's a pleasant activity, especially if you're both stiff from waking up!

Try It With: A little kinky fun. You may have the extra energy to incorporate some kink or sensation play because the Cross position puts you in a comfortable resting posture with less movement needed. Blindfolds can be helpful when the morning sun seeps into the bedroom. Breastspanking or nipple clamps might be a terrific way to start the day if you both want a little "bite" when you wake up.

Remember: The two partners' hip sizes must be compatible for the Cross position. For instance, if anal intercourse is the intended outcome, the penetrating partner's penis or strap-on dildo may be positioned too high for easy penetration with the receiver if they have broad hips. Sex furniture, such as the Liberator Wedge, Dame Pillo, Liberator Humphrey, or Liberator Jaz, can help put you and your partner on the same page by giving them an extra push.

Binding Spoon Sex Position

Greetings from your daring morning sexual position. I adore how it's a modern take on a classic favorite (Spooning) while still letting you relax and have casual, easy morning sex. The receiving partner raises their upper leg and wraps it around their partner or holds it in the air. You can then further interweave by having the penetrating partner move their leg on top of the receiver's leg.

(A little deeper penetration may also be possible with that raised leg!)

Try It With: Your go-to big sex toys. The receiving partner's hands are entirely free in the Binding Spoon posture, allowing a ton of space in front of them. This additional room can be used for an air suction vibrator (such as the Satisfyer Pro 2, We-Vibe Melt, or NS Novelties Firefly Dream Glow), a penile stroker (such as the Tenga Spinner, Kiiro Keon, or Arcwave Ion), or a beloved wand massager (such as the Magic Wand Mini or LELO Smart Wand 2). Toys that need some degree of accuracy can also be a perfect fit here, as the position doesn't require much movement to be enjoyable.

Remember: Not everyone is a suitable fit for the Binding Spoon. Lifting your leg into a deep stretch can be problematic, particularly if you wake up with sore hips or legs. Feel free to revert to the standard Spooning position if such is the case. If having sex while Spooning is just as hard for you, think about masturbating together while only in the position. This lets you enjoy Spooning's intimacy and closeness without worrying about getting the angles just right.

Grand Slam Sex Position

I suggest the Grand Slam position if you're salivating over a from-behind role. In addition to allowing the receiving spouse to remain in bed comfortably, it also facilitates those intense arousal sensations in the morning.

Try It With: Some impact play! Using a flogger or riding crop on the receiver's back can make a big impression, especially if you're embracing the gritty, primitive elements of the Grand Slam posture. Additionally, the penetrating partner might put on vampire gloves, but be careful not to get so drowsy that they forget they're on them!

Remember: In the Grand Slam position, the receiving partner's hips may be heavily burdened. The Sphinx or Backdoor positions might be good options if the receiver frequently wakes up with back pain. In the morning, it can maintain the back in a more neutral position, but it also demands more athleticism from the penetrating partner.

Hinge Sex Position

Do you enjoy deep penetration just after you wake up? Then you'll adore this variation in the Doggy style. In the hinge position, as opposed to the traditional doggie technique, the receiving partner strives to lower their upper body as much as possible. In contrast, the penetrating partner raises one leg into a lunge-like stance.

Together, these two postures allow deeper penetration without overly strenuous morning exercises. Once in the position, the penetrating partner can rock their hips forward softly, or the receiving partner can bounce back onto their partner. If you love the depth, don't be afraid to be harsh with it!

Try It With: OhNut buffers for penetration. Consider putting the OhNut onto the penetrating partner's penis or strap-on dildo if you adore the way this position looks but want a less "ouch-y" approach to deep penetration. This will guarantee that you both have a great time while effortlessly decreasing penetration depth without compromising feeling! (If you prefer cock-ring-like vibrations, OhNut even produces a vibrating ring!)

Keep in Mind: Everyone is on their knees in the hinge posture. Add pillows underneath your knees, perform some pre-sex knee movements, or switch to a different morning sex position if your knees hurt in the morning.

Straddle Sex Position

Without putting you near enough to smell your morning breath, the Straddle sex position can give you the face-to-face position you desire. The receiving partner lifts a leg in the "straddle" position to allow the penetrating partner to slide inside. It guarantees that you won't be in each other's faces first thing in the morning and provides a different perspective than Missionary!

Try It With: A cock ring that vibrates! With a vibrating cock ring, the shaft is positioned to provide the receiver with more stimulation when in the saddle position. To make sure it can strike the clitoris or anal entrance without having to extend too deeply, think about using a cock ring with a long projecting vibrator, unless the receiving partner is flexible. Tantus Vibrating Supersoft, We-Vibe Pivot, and Fun Factory NOS might all work well in this situation.

Keep In Mind: The saddle position requires no movement or effort except for the receiving partner's bent leg. A deep hamstring stretch can be painful, especially in the morning. Try stretching your hamstrings for a few minutes before the event; it can also be an exciting show for your significant other. Alternatively, you can perform the Straddle position next to the wall or bend your knee to lessen the stretch. The receiver can open their raised leg to the side, resting against the wall, at any comfortable height, as shown in the above example, if their right hip is pressing against the wall or headboard. This eliminates the necessity of raising it to a level that a partner can sustain.

Kneeling Fox Sex Position

The Kneeling Fox is another simple sex position that allows you to have lots of skin-on-skin contact without having to worry about breathing in the same morning breath. It also requires very little work: To bring the sensations to life, one partner only needs to perform a little hip grinding or kneeling bounce.

For added stimulation, the posture also allows the penetrating partner to easily play with the receiving partner's breasts or nipples on their chest.

(I also have a terrible fondness for neck kisses in this posture!) The penetrating partner is in the ideal location.

Try It With: An extension or vibrator for the penis. Using a vibrator that straps onto the shaft can be a terrific method to add more enjoyment because this position encourages you to be rapid and to focus on the movement at hand. A penis or strap-on dildo can be instantaneously made to vibrate with the Gender X Rocketeer, Zero Tolerance Cock Armor, or Vibrating Girth Enhancer Extension.

Keep In Mind: The Kneeling Fox is a sex position for fun, not for long, because the knees are bent and bearing weight. Either move out of this position (into the Backdoor, Double Hooked, Sphinx, or Turtle position!) or head straight for the finish line with this one because most people's legs will start to sleep if they remain in it for too long.

Bonus: Reverse Oral Sex Position

For first-thing-in-the-morning sex, the Reverse Oral sex position allows you to do a lot of things, which is why I adore it. The low position will enable you to remain under the blankets, and the position resembling a dog ensures that nobody is breathing on you. In essence, both lovers get to keep lying down; it's a relaxed, cozy sex position that you can both get into.

For many penis owners, receiving oral sex in this manner might be difficult, even though the reverse oral sex position can be great for rimming or cunnilingus. I would suggest the Head Rest or Peepshow positions if you're looking for a comparable blowjob.

Try It With: sex devices that don't require the giving partner's hands. We want to ensure that the providing partner leaves with as much (or as little!) pleasure as they desire, especially if you're pressed for time! With the use of sex toy mounts, such as the Liberator Axis or Liberator On a Mission, the providing partner can enjoy their lover hands-free by leaning over a penis stroker or wand massager.

Keep In Mind: You may not want to have oral sex first thing in the morning if you perspire a lot during the night. If so, you might want to shower together before getting back in bed for the Reverse Oral Sex position.

Bonus: Synchronous Friction Sex Position

Penetration doesn't need to occur in the morning or at any time. In reality, the Synchronous Friction position guarantees that you hardly need to move and may still experience as much (or as little) pleasure as you like if you both prefer to remain comfortably curled up beneath the covers.

The power of mutual masturbation is responsible for all of that! This position makes it possible for you both to be as connected as you'd like, and allows you to relax into the bed and feel completely. You can watch your spouse enjoy or use your hands to make each other feel good. You don't have to be because the Synchronous Friction position is incredibly adjustable.

Try It With: Your preferred sex toys. The "get it done" mindset is suited to the Synchronous Friction posture, particularly if you both have somewhere to be in an hour. Now is not the time to experiment with the new sex toys you purchased if you have somewhere to attend. Instead, grab your tried-and-true favorites before getting ready for the day to climb consistently to Orgasm (if you wish!).

Keep in Mind: I suggest covering both of your bodies with the blanket if you want to share one, but leave each head exposed. It can lessen the chance of someone passing out from the heat, but you'll miss having covers on your feet. Remember that using blankets will make it more difficult to see what your spouse is doing!

Bonus: Spread Eagle Bondage Sex Position

You're in bed already. Using an Under-the-Bed Restraint System to incorporate some bondage into a morning-sex-friendly position is the best idea ever!

Many people imagine being roused up while being held in a restraint and at their partner's "mercy." But you should never, ever force this on someone. The night before, ensure you have discussed it in detail and have your partner's consent. Additionally, while playing, ensure the tied partner is still having fun by checking in with them frequently; if not, untie them. Sometimes folks are just not up to having sex or don't feel well in the morning. Additionally, they can wake up with a desire to urinate! If your "captive" needs a few seconds to play or if you have to rearrange your scene for a different morning, don't give up.

Simply put, someone does not want to do anything in person simply because it seems incredible in their imagination!

Try It With: A little kink or roleplaying! Given that the bound partner is at their "mercy," the top can decide how this morning's sex session unfolds. This may involve an anal stretching session using your favorite anal toys, a "kidnapping" scenario, or whatever else your kinky little Mind can think of! Additionally, this posture frees up the body for electrostim play (particularly with an e-stim powerbox!) and submission and dominance experiments. The possibilities are infinite as long as you both agree!

Keep in Mind: The Extreme Under-the-Restraint system must be set up in advance for the Spread Eagle bed bondage posture to go well. To make sure the tether of each cuff is roughly the appropriate length for your partner's spread body, you should also adjust its length. While you're attempting to be as discreet as possible to keep your "captive" from waking up, fumbling with nylon straps could reveal your identity.

How to Have Better Morning Sex

Even though having sex at any time of day has many amazing advantages, there are a few particulars about morning sex that you should be aware of to make it more enjoyable for all parties:

  • Pick lazy positions. You just awoke! It's all about groggy, half-awake gestures. Even while having sex in the morning can be stimulating, most of us don't want to dive into our hearts just a few minutes after waking up. Here, sex positions that allow us to be somewhat lazy are highly valued.
  • Avoid intense stretches. I don't know about you, but every muscle feels tight until I get up and move about in the morning. (I think I look like a zombie when I leave the bedroom.) Therefore, you should stay away from any sexual positions that call for your typical physical ability. You don't want to have to tell your coworkers that you tried to fuck this morning and injured your hamstring. I don't think you'll get over it.
  • Steer clear of face-to-face positions -- unless you like morning breath. Let's face it: You probably don't have enough breath to desire those intimate, close-to-facial postures until you reach that toothbrush. Some sips of water can help (but not completely remove) some of the odor if you're trying to go straight from sex to sex without stopping in the bathroom first.
  • Pick blanket-friendly positions. The coldest temperatures occur at night; occasionally, getting out of the warm bed is a giant arousal killer. Keep your safer sex supplies (such as lubricant, condoms, and sex toys) close at hand and limit your sex to positions that can be performed beneath the sheets if that's the case.

Conclusion

Most mornings, most of us have somewhere to be. This implies that you can enjoy your connection and avoid being late for work by using quicker, simpler sex positions.

Sex gadgets or extra hand stimulation can help move things ahead quickly and guarantee that everyone has a blast!