Shallow Penetration Sex Positions for Big Penis Sex

Is the monster bringing you down? Everybody is not a size queen. These positions will keep things sweet and superficial if huge penis sex is causing discomfort.

The size of your penis is not as important as you may believe.

You'll see it again in most of Kinkly's articles; they're correct! The girth or length of the penis is only one aspect of sexual compatibility (and pleasure!). The majority of those looking for committed partnerships don't choose a spouse based just on penis size. It's true, I know! (But it would make an extraordinary reality show!)

Despite everything, the idea that "bigger is better" is a common topic of conversation. It's a common misconception that every recipient wants a big penis, but in reality, having a huge dick can have drawbacks.

This isn't always the case, though, as someone who has sex with big penises and who has acquaintances with those "coveted" shafts can attest to. My colleagues frequently talk about the difficulties of having sex with a larger penis, and I have personally had to decline any chance of sexual activity when a partner had a larger-than-average size. Among them are:

• Regularly hurting their partner. The fact that the penis can easily injure the receiving partner is typically an issue because most individuals engage in sexual activity for pleasure and want everyone to enjoy it. A receiving partner may experience pain from going too deep or simply from the girth of the penis in shallow positions.
• An inability to completely relax. If length is the source of pain, the owner of the penis could find it difficult to "let go" during intercourse for fear of inadvertently hurting their partner by going too deep. This may hamper a person's enjoyment of sexual activity.
• Difficulty/inability to go into the hilt. It might never be possible to slide inside, especially with lengthier penises. When entirely slipped within, it could not be feasible to feel the pressure of a partner's hips against their own.
• Inability to penetrate - at all. The owner of the penis may find it quite challenging to penetrate their lover, particularly if they are dealing with a wide girth. The receiving partner might not be able to get even the tip of the partner's girth without experiencing agony, particularly if the penis-owner is with a new partner.

Your spouse might not find vaginal or anal penetration enjoyable, even with enough lubrication and foreplay. Along with difficulties penetrating, some people experience extreme discomfort or even pain when their penis presses against their cervix.

The sex positions you choose, however, can "reduce" some of the pain areas involved with intercourse if you or your partner has a larger-than-average shaft. The sex position you choose can make a penis feel smaller, just as different sex positions can make a penis feel larger.

The key is how close your bodies can go to each other and the depth of penetration!

Shallow Penetration Sex Positions for Big Penis Sex

Coital Alignment Technique

The Coital Alignment Technique position is a variation of the Missionary position, with the added benefit that it allows a receiving partner who owns a clitoris to enjoy themselves hands-free!

Similar to the missionary position, line up with the penis pointing directly down towards the floor beneath the receiving partner, rather than angling for it to slide inside with a horizontal movement. After you accomplish that, the shaft's length will slide along the vulva and clitoris for stimulation with each push.

In addition to adding extra pleasure, this can be a superb shallow penetration sex position because the majority of the shaft length is left outside the body!

Spice It Up: A vibrating cock ring, such as the Fun Factory NOS or We-Vibe Pivot, would be a suitable fit for this sex position because clitoral stimulation is the key here. Just make sure the ring's size and form suit you both. The receiving partner experiences a lot of pressure and friction due to the special angles the Coital Alignment Technique offers, so you want to make sure your vibrating cock ring is contributing to that.

Kneeling Fox

Reduce the movements of the penetrating partner to help guarantee that the penis never gets too deep. The Kneeling Fox simplifies things and makes them quite comfortable! Kneeling Fox can work well for big penis sex since both lovers kneel, and the receiver controls the depth and speed.

Nothing suggests that Kneeling Fox should concentrate on long thrusts. The receiver can think of flicking or grinding their hips to make movement easier without slipping down into their partner's lap.

Additionally, the penetrating partner's hands remain completely exposed, which can be a terrific way to reach around and give the recipient pleasure!

Spice It Up: The Kneeling Fox can be an excellent place to try ballsex if you're both game for a different kind of experience. This unusual sex gadget, which was made possible by the Balldo, gives the testicles dildo-like characteristics and opens up new avenues for communication with a partner!

Galley Position

Like the Kneeling Fox, the Galley Position limits the penetrating partner's range of motion while placing all the depth in the receiving partner's court. Reducing penetration depth while maintaining the attractive images that are characteristic of the Reverse Cowgirl position can be achieved by positioning the receiving partner at an offset angle (in contrast to Cowgirl).

Additionally, the Galley Position's angle positions the receiver's clitoris/penis just above the thigh of the penetrating partner. The receiving partner can grind against the thigh for even more excitement if the angles suit them.

Spice It Up: Do you want to become a little kinky? Impact play and spanking work incredibly well from the galley position. Bring along some paddles or floggers to make it feel more "official" or use your hands for some spontaneous spanking.

TV Dinner Sex Position

Let's use the TV Dinner sex position to get creative. Because the entering partner must straddle a chair, this personal, face-to-face sex position eliminates a lot of the close, hip-on-hip contact. This can lessen the depth of penetration and potentially prevent people with shorter penises from accessing the sex position.

The TV Dinner sex position also promotes smaller micromovements, which can lessen any unintentional penetration depth pain, since it eliminates the need for powerful, deep thrusting when straddling a chair.

Spice it Up: Sit-on vibrators are easily incorporated into the TV Dinner posture when seated on a level table. To quickly add more stimulation and improve the mood, place the vibrator underneath either partner. Take the Rocks Off Ruby Glow, Orion VibePad 2, or Wild Flower Enby 2.

Spider Sex Position

Without the typical deep penetration, enjoy some delectable skin-on-skin sensations. You can lessen the amount of closeness your hips can attain and the amount of depth the penis can go right out of the gate by alternating your thighs in the Spider Position. You may manage depth and lessen unintentionally "too deep" pain places by pinching your hips closer together (or farther apart!).

Additionally, Spider Position has several enjoyable advantages! This inventive sex position delivers a lot of face-to-face activity in addition to allowing you to both feel the warmth of each other's skin. As you descend into this sex position, see your partner's lips loosen in ecstasy.

Spice It Up: Consider surrounding the base with a penis vibrator, such as the Fun Factory Manta, if the penetrating partner wants greater stimulation. The deep vibrations can cause the entire penis to shake, giving the recipient more feeling in addition to the instantaneous vibrating delight for the penis-owner! Additionally, the Manta can occupy space along the shaft, decreasing the possibility of thrusting too deeply by accident.

Swinging Cowgirl

The Swinging Cowgirl variation makes the list even though Cowgirl wouldn't typically since it puts the receiver's entire body weight on top of the penis. The inclusion of a sex swing is the cause of this. Shorten the straps on the sex swing to keep the receiving partner's body farther away from the entering partner's hips if traditional Cowgirl is too unpleasant for you both. If sitting all the way down on the shaft would be difficult, the sex swing takes all the hard work of supporting the receiving partner's body weight while allowing them to relax into the position comfortably!

Spice It Up: Include any sexual object that would readily gratify the recipient. It is pretty simple to add hand sex or a favorite sex toy here since the penetrating partner will have their hands free and easily visible between the receiver's legs. Think about an electrosex toy, the Tenga Spinner, or the Magic Wand Mini.

Twin Standing Pleasure Position

To make sex even more enjoyable for the recipient, the Twin Standing Pleasure Position offers more hands-free penile/clitoral stimulation in addition to shallower penetration. It benefits both parties! A wand massager or penis stroker can be held in place for additional sensations without requiring any effort by using a sex toy mount, such as the Liberator Axis or Liberator Top Dog.

The penetration depth can be decreased by having to "thrust through" the mushy flesh of the thighs and butt, and it can be quickly adjusted by only moving a little bit apart.

Spice It Up: The Twin Standing Pleasure Position allows complete, effortless access to the receiver's chest, making it a fantastic fit for nipple clamps. To add immediate sensation, think about simply clamping the Mystim Barry Bite Clamps, Sportssheets Chained Nipple Clamps, and Sportssheets Nipple Suckers onto the nipples.

Missionary Sex Position

I realize it's simple, but it's worth bringing up because it's so common!

Missionary can result in shallower sex since it positions both of your bodies flat with few angles. Ask the receiving partner to put their legs firmly and straight together to change depth rapidly. While the contrary produces the intended shallower penetration, opening the legs and tilting the hips can result in deeper penetration.

Spice It Up: Because it's easy to accomplish and provides excellent in-person intimacy, missionary is the gold standard for many couples. Use lots of making out, extended eye contact, and sultry conversation to capitalize on those advantages.

Finally, Make Any Sex Position Work!

Although I am aware that you have just read for the past twenty minutes about the various shallow penetration sex positions available, I would like to offer you some advice if you have another favorite that you would like to try:

Get a penis limiter like the OhNut. During intercourse, these squishy, soft rings act as physical "stopping points" that fit snugly anywhere on the shaft. They prevent the penis from penetrating any further than where the OhNut is positioned, making them far more pleasant than cock rings.

This enables you both to unwind; the recipient spouse can stop worrying about any unintentional, intense pain from that occurring, and the penis-owner can stop worrying about inadvertently entering too deep (the rings will prevent them!). It's a straightforward answer, but also beneficial when ensuring both parties have fun!

Now go ahead and have sex, making the most of these shallow penetration sex positions in the process!