Scientifically Proven Ways to Make Her Orgasm Easier

The clitoris is the key to a woman's orgasm, not the size or penetration of her penis. Be a hero, learn it, and enjoy it!

Have you ever questioned if your significant other is acting? Have you ever questioned whether you're truly meeting her needs? If so, you are not by yourself. Because they believe it's the secret to female fulfillment, men frequently write to me for assistance regarding the size of their penis.

The truth as established by science? You are starting from a false premise if you believe that penis size is the most critical factor. If you want your partner to come rather than say she did, you should concentrate on the clitoris. Even if you know that, are you familiar with its underlying science? Let's examine.

How She Gets Herself Off

According to lab-based observations and interviews conducted since Alfred Kinsey's research in the 1950s, Masters & Johnson's research in the 1960s, and current scientific investigations, just one in five women ever gives herself an orgasm through vaginal penetration. Once their curiosity about penetration is satiated, the majority of women stop using it. However, the clitoris is constantly stimulated by women.

Don't you think more women would ignore their clits while they're by themselves and free to do anything they want if they could safely ignore them, stimulate them as a simple afterthought or during foreplay, or leave them there to attract whatever attention they can during thrusting?

Not at all. The primary focus of the female orgasm is the clit. Great lovers demonstrate their awareness of that fact through their actions and ideas.

Why She Doesn't Rely on Penetration

Regardless of penis size, multiple studies have revealed that just one out of five women experience orgasms from thrusting alone. For almost eight out of ten women to experience an orgasm, direct clitoral stimulation is necessary. This is occasionally accomplished while stroking herself or during penetration by pressing her clitoris on her partner's pubic bone. But the majority of women require direct stimulation, so your licking or stroking of the clit—as long as it's well lubricated—is precisely what she needs and desires.

Why? There are several nerve endings in the visible part of the clit, even though you only notice a slight bump. That small area contains as many nerve endings as a whole penis. The same material was used to produce the clit and the penis during embryonic development. Just as the penis is the most sensitive and responsive part of the male anatomy, the clitoris is the most sensitive and responsive component of the vulva and its environs. Therefore, expecting a woman to stop having sex is similar to expecting a male to arrive without putting anything in contact with his penis. Some people may experience it, but not most.

Why is thrusting so difficult for more women? The position of the clit dictates how much pleasure a woman can get from penetration in a strange cosmic joke. The key to success in real estate is location, location, location! It is improbable that a woman will experience an orgasm from penetration if her clitoris is more than an inch from the vaginal opening. Most ladies are like that.

Nobody is to blame for this; there is no need to fix it. It's biological. You may handle it by clearing your head and double-clicking your mouse, wherever possible. It is the key to the Queendom; it is present and amazing. That's what counts.

What You Can Do

Every clit has a distinct personality, so much so that I am unable to tell you what it desires other than moist attention because every clitoris enjoys being pampered differently. Many women prefer oral sex as the most direct path to orgasm. Some will show you what they want without telling you; you will need to keep a close eye on them and listen to their body language, breathing, and noises—all of which are their languages.

Therefore, there is no way to avoid it. The clitoris will require a lot of attention, and you will need to talk to the person you are having sex with. Both partners are affected by this. It's unfair to expect orgasms yet keep your partner in the dark about them. (Aren't the authentic orgasms superior to the phony ones?)

The men who write to me are not self-centered. Their desire to win over their partner is admirable. It will be necessary to give up the idea of the instantly orgasmic woman who only requires a deep dicking if you want to give your spouse a real sexual high rather than one that is faked or missing. Instead, develop authentic intimacy with the genuine, unique lady.

Transfer to her clitoris and play together to determine exactly what she needs and wants to make orgasm simple, or at least much simpler.

Bonus? The vagina's exterior contains the clitoris. It is accessible to all parts of you, and all sizes are appropriate.