Paddle

Typically constructed of leather or wood, a paddle is a sex toy with two flat sides and a handle. In BDSM or bondage play, paddles are frequently used to spank the receiver's bottom with a light or strong force. Pain is utilized in BDSM to heighten pleasure and sensation.

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If you are interested in spanking, many excellent, non-threatening paddles are available. When spanking or paddling someone, paying attention to where you strike is essential. It is safe to spank the butt, thighs, and even the upper back (gently). Furthermore, the breasts can (again, softly).

However, as it is more likely to cause harm, it is best to avoid striking the lower back, face, neck, joints, or the area next to the kidneys.