
Opening the Floodgates: Now We Can Talk About Watersports
It has been an epic sexual buzzword ever since the world was first made aware that Donald Trump, the recently elected President of the United States, might be engaged in a particularly taboo sexual behavior.
There is a burst pipe. The river is bursting at the seams. The faucet is leaking. It has been an epic sexual buzzword ever since the world was first made aware that Donald Trump, the recently elected President of the United States, might be engaged in a particularly taboo sexual behavior. It doesn't matter if the stories are accurate or not. Given that many people aren't even aware of what water sports are, who would have imagined that they would become a popular hashtag?
When pop and sexual cultures intersect, there can be both positive and negative effects. This phenomenon is known as the "Fifty Shades Effect." The positive aspect is that curiosity leads to the creation of dialogue and discoveries. Individuals converse, acquire knowledge, and engage in play (or not). Unfortunately, there are instances when the conversations are also rife with false information or prejudice, discouraging or discrediting people from trying something.
So, what are watersports anyway?
Urine/pee/piss play and "golden showers" are other names for watersports, which are sexual activities that require urinating. This could indicate that you or someone else is urinating. There are many levels of involvement with the piss. Some people desire to be peed on, while others enjoy watching others urinate. Some people take this enjoyment a step further by putting the urine in their mouth, while others take it even further by getting it in their anus or vagina. Exploring power dynamics in BDSM relationships and scenarios is another purpose for water sports.
Why do people like watersports or golden showers?
For most people, water sports are rather inconceivable when it comes to sexual enjoyment. However, that may contribute to its allure.
Luna Matatas says, "I think what draws people to it is the taboo, the naughtiness." "Since it goes against everything we've been taught about sanitation throughout our lives, which is mostly related to handling bodily waste, some of us find it thrilling when we eroticize urine." Urine play is one of the classes offered by sex educator Luna. Golden Nectar is her preferred name for water sports.
Luna argues that many people, especially those with vulvas, do not even know what it looks like to urinate, let alone how it feels or tastes, given the historical background of waste elimination. It's challenging to investigate because of our shared understanding of privacy while we urinate. We are aware, meanwhile, that situations of this nature frequently arouse sexual curiosity. "The potential to play with power and other emotions to bring pee into an erotic play space is appealing, as is the allure of the unknown."
Is playing with pee even safe?
When the taboo around water sports is breached, the conversation swiftly shifts to safety. Once more, urine should be treated as a bodily waste. Pee play is safe, though, if you and your companions know. When pee is mentioned, there is a common misconception that it is sterile. Technically speaking, splashing and eating are safe activities because of this. However, any bacteria or pathogens found in the urine may be transferred through the mouth, anus, vagina, eyes, and open wounds, among other mucous membranes. An essential component of piss play is the sharing of health hazards. If you're interested in something, remember it and do your homework.
Aren't watersports messy?
Where do you play when the dam is going to burst, and the flood is approaching? Without question, water sports are untidy. Sex is usually associated with a certain amount of wetness, but if you're going to play with urine, keep in mind that you're going to blow it out of the water. Water sports are, therefore, not typically regarded as a bedroom pastime, even though there are excellent items for more experienced piss players. Instead, the shower or bathtub is one of the most seductive places to partake in water sports. Enjoy all the fun of urinating without having to worry about cleaning up! One of the best places to start your urination adventures is the shower. It's readily washed away in the shower if you don't get off on urine. And when it's empty, those who enjoy it can swiftly towel off and move on to other pleasures.
Watersports and Kink
Water sports might be a lighthearted activity that involves tasting and experiencing urine, or they can be a component of much more complex aspirations. Urinating may be a very submissive and controlling trait; thus, including it in BDSM activities can be a game-changer. The possibility of humiliation play is one of the most powerful correlations with BDSM. Pooping on something is typically regarded as marking territory outside of a sexual context. It may be to bring that mindset into a humiliation scene. The bottom, who receives and turns into property, might be denigrated and claimed by the Top, who is urinating. Role-playing, adoration, and other activities are also possible in water sports. These are some strong and enticing dynamics that have the potential to be spectacular and intense when boundaries are well-defined.
Some people may find water activities too intense. Not every kink will appeal to everyone. Though Luna would love to dispel the myth, the response to the Trump accusation highlighted some persistently unfavorable views that people still hold about fetishes.
As with all aspects of life, there are differences in expectations, methods, and experiences. Fetish play is no different; while some people are open-minded and prepared to explore, others have strong views (good or negative) about fetishes. Things that might not be sexy in a non-erotic setting can seem sexual when included in a sensual role-play, and watersports are no exception.