I'm a submissive. How do I find a Mistress?

You should first determine what you want. Are you looking for a professional mistress or a lifestyle? Which would you prefer: 24/7 D/s or session-based? What do you hope to get out of this relationship in the long run? You can start looking for the mistress of your dreams after you have a better understanding of your demands. Your applications are unlikely to be accepted if you are unclear about what you want, as any possible mistress will interpret this.

To make locating a local Domme even simpler, thousands of dominant women and mistresses are frequently grouped by area on the various well-known BDSM community websites that are available online. Additionally, there are Facebook FemDom groups and other hashtags on Twitter that allow you to instantly interact with many Dominant women and mistresses and locate others that share your interests.

When a mistress catches your eye, be very mindful of how you make eye contact. She probably gets a lot of emails from eager submissives. The fact of the matter is that she has the last say over whether or not to accept you. To adhere to any special instructions, particularly on how she wants to be addressed, read her profile. Avoid demanding anything from her, trying to boast, or trying to control her in any manner.

Above all, keep in mind your original intention to work for a mistress. You should now be considering her needs rather than your desires. Make your service plea unique by learning how your possible mistress prefers to be worshipped and handled.