I Tried a Sex Doll. Here's What It Was Like

The disability advocate and resident reviewer at Kinkly had their first encounter with a sex doll.

I just had the chance to test out Tantaly Candice, a sex doll. To begin with, I am highly queer, disabled, and primarily attracted to individuals with penises. Nevertheless, I was a little interested in how I could feel using a doll made for heterosexual guys that had real-feeling breasts (the soft-chest technology is dubbed "Tantabosom"). Before the goods arrived, there was undoubtedly some hesitancy, but I'm glad to report that as I learned more, that soon vanished. I also chose to review the toy because I know many disabled persons could be interested in such a product, but they might not have known where to go for accessibility information. I knew that I could be of use there. Who am I to refuse the opportunity to test a sex item, anyway? Let's get started.

Sex Doll Secret in the Mail

Let's start with the packing. For anyone considering purchasing any sex toy, particularly a sex doll, discretion is a primary concern. Don't worry; I thought the wrapping was discrete. It was so covert that I couldn't figure out what it was when I got home and saw the box at my door. Was it a secret admirer's gift? Was it just another box of dull supplies for people with disabilities? (I was expecting to see gloves and cleaning materials because I frequently receive boxes like this.) When my caregiver opened it to show the Tintaly Candice, I was pleasantly thrilled (and anxious).

Although I appreciated the packaging's discreteness, it wasn't the best from an accessibility perspective; due to my limited dexterity, I had to ask one of my attendant care workers for assistance when I opened a box only to discover another box. I had to explain to my caretaker why I had a sex doll at home, which was just a little humiliating and made the boxes' discretion appear sort of comical. That was a rather fascinating conversation, I must say!

Can a sex doll feel real?

Are sex dolls able to feel real? I'm happy to report that it was among the most comfortable masturbation experiences I've ever had. When I first used it, I knew I was holding a doll, which distracted me, but that didn't last long. Its immense size was one of the things I liked best about it. I require larger objects to grasp since I have poor fine motor skills (I swear, there's a sex pun there). I think the toy was enjoyable to use and simple to arrange in the manner that I required. When I used the toy, I also liked how it gave much-needed intimacy and contact because Candice weighed about forty-two pounds.

I didn't try any penetration at all when I used it a second time. I just hugged and held on to it, which was a pleasant difference from the typical vibrator or masturbator. Intimacy and touch are two things that I believe sex dolls like Candice can offer.

One of my main problems during intercourse as a person with a significant disability is that I am unable to penetrate someone since I am unable to move my hips in that manner. I've never been able to enjoy sex because of this, honestly. Candice's weight and bulk allowed me to place her on top of myself and pump her up and down without actually moving my hips or thrusting at all, which is what I valued about her. That was amazing. In addition, a lot of different sex toys have caused discomfort on my penis when I've tried to push with them. When I tested it out, I liked how soft and pliable Candice felt; no matter how deep I went, it didn't hurt my penis. To ensure comfort and cum-fort (wink!) when utilizing this product, you will want to use a lot of lubrication.

Care and Cleaning of a Sex Doll

Although I needed assistance from my attendant to clean the product, the toy could be washed with just a fast shower. (The business also offers inside cleaning and maintenance advice.)  Because of its size, cleaning was also made much simpler because you could grab it and throw it in the shower; there were no parts to worry about. If you wanted more closeness, you could even take Candice in the shower.

It should be noted that Candice also includes a portable washer for inside cleaning. After every use, this is inserted to clean the doll thoroughly with a pressured spray. Candice comes with a drying stick that should be inserted after cleaning because the maker advises that the toy be thoroughly cleaned and dried between uses.

Is a sex doll better than a masturbator?

The Tantaly Candice, in my opinion, has a different atmosphere than a masturbator. One aspect of it that I truly liked was how it seemed closer and more intimate than just pulling out a basic sex toy. Compared to other smaller masturbators, which are usually difficult to grasp and use if you have limited hand function or dexterity, I believe its size gained out for me as a disabled user. Additionally, you may decide to use this toy instead of a masturbator to have a more "real" experience. As far as a headless, large-breasted body can, Candice provides a more humane experience than other masturbators, with their cheeky names and vivid colors that distract you from the present. You can fall asleep and concentrate just on the pleasure she gives you if you close your eyes while you're with her—much more than any masturbator available! Additionally, you can grasp the Tantaly Candice doll at different angles and adjust its posture as necessary. For optimal comfort and satisfaction during use, you may truly anchor her where you need her, which is a pleasant alternative to having to move a vibrator or masturbator around all the time.

How do you store a sex doll?

By their very nature, sex dolls are difficult to store. Because of its size, the Tantaly Candice may be challenging to store. Inside its box, it measures 25 inches in height, 19 inches in width, and 10 inches in depth, despite being smaller than many other full-size dolls. The box sat out in my flat when I wasn't using it because I couldn't keep it. If possible, the optimum storage solution would be a discrete bag or some storage box that didn't appear overly large and unwieldy. (Note that a lockable suitcase is one of the many customer comments and suggestions on Tantaly's Reddit page regarding how they are keeping the merchandise.) The firm advises keeping the device reclining and suggests a storage box that measures 24.8 by 19.29 by 10.24 inches.

I thought the Tantaly Candice doll was a great sex toy, and I would suggest it to both disabled and non-disabled users.