I Feel Pretty: A Guide to Sissy Play

Sissy play is an excellent method to bring intimacy and empathy into your relationship with your partner.

Greetings from Sissy Play 101! We're going into great detail about this particular kink, as well as what tools and methods can improve your sissification play and how to ensure that everyone is having a blast.

What is sissy play?

Sissy play is when someone they view as superior feminizes a submissive-leaning partner for sexual purposes. High heels, short skirts, lingerie, makeup, and other characteristics of sexualized femininity are all part of this feminization, which is frequently done for sexual enjoyment.

Extremely sexualized attire, submissive language, lingerie, a persistent willingness to perform sexual services, an awareness that their purpose is to "serve" men and penis-owners, and an identification with the notion that a sissy's only worth lies in the sexual services and visual gratification they can offer others are all common elements of sissification play.

Since sissification plays frequently mimic well-known situations from adult entertainment, it makes natural that many people only know sissy play as a pornographic cliché. A sissy might get aroused, for instance, by the prospect of having to hitchhike across the nation and the driver expecting them to use their body as payment.

The term "sissy" may be used by some to describe any gendered activity. However, feminization is not synonymous with sissy play, often known as sissification. Sissification is the deliberate exaggeration of feminine traits, frequently to arouse. Although the emotions sought are typically centered on humiliation, they can also include relief, embarrassment, relaxation, vulnerability, or tranquillity.

Consider it the distinction between drawing a caricature and a portrait. To highlight their existence, you're purposefully enlarging a few of the essential characteristics.

A person may go about their day wearing a short skirt and heels in a non-sexual, non-sissification setting. They could like the attention they get for their good looks and feel sexy. The individual may not be wearing underwear, the skirt may be extremely short, and they frequently make an effort to display their nudity and provide sexual services to anyone who asks for them.

Statements such as "I want to look like a princess who's made to suck cocks like the whore she is" or "Serving men is a goal to aspire to" may resonate with the sissy. Kneeling is more comfortable for sissies than standing.

Though it can be difficult to distinguish, sissy play is distinct from a person's gender identification. A common kink used to increase sexual excitement is sissification play. Many sissies will not be interested in any more sissification play after they have experienced an orgasm. For someone who is experimenting with a more feminized gender identification, it is probably not the case.

Despite this definition, it's crucial to remember that each individual's sissy play is different. Because it encompasses such a diverse range of activities, it can be challenging to describe. It would be like claiming to be "bondage." That might signify a lot of different things! Instead of presuming a general interest in a wide range of sissy play, I suggest having a conversation about what sissification means to each individual.

Types of Feminization Play

There are numerous methods to experiment with feminization and sissification because the larger sissification kink is composed of smaller subgroups of kinks!

Crossdressing and Feminized Behavior

A defining characteristic of the sissification kink is feminine attire, look, and conduct. When the sissy's metamorphosis is over, they want to look and act like an ultra-sexual, feminine lady.

A sissy's metamorphosis may involve physical changes, unique attire, or modified behaviors like:

• Hair removal
• painted and manicured nails
• Underwear
• Clothes for women
• Training for the waist
• Longer hair or wigs
• Jewels
• Speaking more softly
• Flexibility training and yoga
• Butt plugs are worn to guarantee "readiness" at all times.
• Having good posture when walking
• High heels
• Deliberately exposing or sexually enhancing oneself through movement in consensual situations, such as teaching oneself to bend at the waist rather than squat to reveal one's butt.

Individuals who are interested in sissification may go beyond what is currently regarded as tastefully "feminine" in their crossdressing, particularly if humiliation is one of the ultimate objectives of their sissy play. This could entail dressing in dresses, skirts, and fancy gowns that are completely inappropriate for public settings. It could involve rigorous adherence to uncommon feminine manners in most contemporary settings, such as never establishing eye contact with a suitor or waiting to speak until someone speaks to you.

Equipment that "forces" the sissy to remain locked in their feminized attire is another example of crossdressing.

Sexual Servitude and Sissy Training

Sexual servitude is another fundamental aspect of sissification, and it frequently reflects the idea of femininity seen in porn. The notion that a sissy's only worth during playtime is their attractiveness, sexual prowess, and readiness to serve their superiors sexually is probably one that they can relate to.

Many people who enjoy sissy play practice sissy training to get that goal. This could entail high heel training, endurance training, makeup practice, anal or vaginal stretching, oral sex skills practice using dildos, and more.

Presenting a better final "package" for their superiors to appreciate is the ultimate goal of a lot of sissification training. This might be an "alpha" or a dominant partner, or it could just be anyone that wants to have sex with the sissy.

In sissification scenarios, oral servitude is frequently depicted, with anal sex coming in second.

Sexual Denial

According to the fundamental idea of sexual slavery, sissy play may completely disregard the sissy's enjoyment. The sexualized notion that a sissy's value lies in sexually serving others and that any self-pleasure is superfluous and distracting from that purpose makes chastity cages (more on these below) a common feature of the experience.

Sexual denial is a common component of sissy femdom play, and the femdom partner may find it particularly appealing. Play can go on until the Femdom is completely content and prepared for play to stop if the sissified partner is kept stimulated.

Sexual denial can last for different lengths of time. Certain sissy plays might deny the sissy for the duration of the scene. Others might need to abstain from sexual activity for the weeks before a scheduled playdate. Some dominants always forbid sissys from orgasming unless they have permission to do so. Although the denial itself is frequently a component of play, each kinkster may have different preferences on the duration and severity of the denial.

Chastity Play

Chastity plays and the usage of chastity devices are a subcategory of sexual denial that is a part of many forms of sissification play. Penis-owning subs, who are sometimes referred to as their "clitty" in sissification contexts, may also visually emasculate a sissy by wearing a chastity device that forbids erections.

For this reason, a whole group of chastity devices are designed. Some of these devices have vulvas on the front, while others try to conceal the shaft completely by tucking it back into the body.

Chastity gadgets that make the flaccid shaft almost nonexistent can be the ultimate objective for those who are committed to this kink. Until they reach their ideal (lack of) size, sissies can wear increasingly smaller and smaller chastity devices, effectively adapting to the continuous compression needed by tiny chastity devices.

The Femdom most likely controls the chastity device and decides when the chaste bottom is unlocked if sissy femdom play is present. The Femdom can be referred to as their keyholder if that occurs.

Prostate Play

Prostate play may be the primary focus of sissification scenes for sissies who own prostates. The expectation that the sissy will only climax in response to p-spot stimulation could turn this into a sexualized cliché. Because of the sexual build-up that results from being unable to touch the penis, chastity cages and orgasm denial may make this much more achievable for sissy-play kinksters.

Sissies may take great satisfaction in their capacity to experience p-spot orgasms, and they may view this as a "bonus" for anyone engaging in anal intercourse with them.

Prostate massagers and p-spot dildos are frequently utilized as stand-ins when enjoying sissification kinks alone to experience prostate play or get ready for future play partner service.

Why are people interested in sissy play?

The "perfect" and ultra-feminized image of womanhood is portrayed in typical pornographic cliches. The concept of "becoming" someone like this may turn on individuals who are into sissification. At the same time, some porn watchers find the prospect of getting together with someone like this attractive and enticing.

Although each kinkster has a unique explanation for why sissy play appeals to them, some typical explanations are as follows:

• Freedom to express themselves. Sensitivity and emotional exploration are not given much leeway in typical modern masculinity. Someone can explore these feelings in a safe and accepting environment through sissification.

• Overt sexuality. Many of us come from cultures that view overt sexual advances as rude or inappropriate. Sissification flips it around by embracing excessive sexuality and achieving your goals.

• Freeuse kink crossovers. The possibility of being used sexually at any time, regardless of their feelings, turns off some sissies. People may be powerfully attracted to the free kink as a result of this.

• Wide fashion choices. There are very few sexualized clothes for men, but there are countless options for sexualized garments for women. In a way that is completely lacking while dressed in a manly manner, some sissies truly love having the flexibility to experiment with all of these fashion options.

• Subservient behaviors are embraced. Being in charge is a requirement of typical modern masculinity. It is possible to switch roles in sissification. The sissy is actively instructed on what to do, in addition to not being expected to be in charge.

• Some people identify with feminization. For some people, feminine characteristics are simply more relatable than masculine ones. Even if they don't wish to switch to those behaviours daily, sissification provides a secure environment for them to experiment with them.

Sissy, play with your Femdom.

Talking to a woman about whether she enjoys sissification play is crucial if you want to engage in sissy play with her. For those who were raised as women, sissification play can sometimes be frustrating. The kink exploits caricatures and clichés of femininity that have harmed women throughout their lifetimes. For many femdoms, being responsible for bringing more of it into the world can be traumatic. Many femdoms view sissy play as a hard restriction, in part because of this.

Discuss with your Femdom what they stand to gain from sissy play and whether they find it especially upsetting. If so, identify the specific elements that trigger your sissy play and steer clear of them, or choose to forego sissification entirely.

With this knowledge in hand, focus on the aspects of your Femdom that make you appreciate the kink.

Dominant women are drawn to sissy femdom play for several reasons, but some typical ones include:

• Shared intimacy. Since many submissives keep their sissification kink concealed, some femdoms are aroused by their partners' hidden vulnerability. Being trusted with its secret can seem incredibly intimate, and this kink frequently includes a lot of judgment from the vanilla world at large.

• Better understanding. Those who have not dressed femininely may find that sissification helps them realize how much labor it takes. "Forcing" this lived experience on a submissive spouse can help them better grasp the life of their Femdom.

• Erotic visuals. The appearance of a feminineized submissive is adored by certain females. They may view sissy femdom play as only modifying their subordinate to suit their preferences. There might be some overlap between this and the dollification kink.

• Easy humiliation. Tropes of sissification provide simple opportunities for humiliation. This might be an easy entrance for femdoms who enjoy playing games of humiliation and degradation.

• "BFF Potential." The concept of sharing part of their feminine behaviors with someone is something that some females adore. It can feel like having a very close best friend when you can discuss clothes, makeup, fashion advice, nail polish, and other feminine pursuits with a submissive.

• Introductions to group play. The submissive providing sexual slavery to a male or penis owner is a common cliché in sissification. This might be a cosy and straightforward transition into group play for femdoms who enjoy the concept of group sex.

In addition to the acts themselves, focusing on some of these reasons for sissy play helps guarantee that everyone is enjoying themselves without harboring any grudges.

Embracing Sissification Play

Even though sissification play has many benefits, it can be challenging to get started. There are many stereotypes associated with gender, and it can be frightening to consider examining some of them.

Don't worry; wearing underwear won't alter your sexual orientation. Additionally, you can always stop doing something if you don't enjoy it! No one will even know you have tried it unless you have shared it with others. Online purchasing makes it simple to have a pair of underwear delivered to your house so you may try it on while no one else is there.

Do not hesitate if you are a sissy waiting to discover a sissy femdom! Now, try things out for yourself. Consider it a service you're offering to your future Femdom if you have to. You'll come across to her as a polished sissy who is somewhat knowledgeable about your field, in addition to being able to tell her what you like and don't like to do. A prospective femdom will find that far more appealing than someone who has never worked on their kinks.

Having fun is the primary goal of sissy play, just like it is for all other kinks. Discover what appeals to you and seems enjoyable, then do it! You're doing it correctly if everyone is enjoying themselves. That's the main idea behind kink and BDSM.