Try Reverse Missionary: Not Your Parents' Missionary Position
Continue reading to learn all there is to know about reverse missionary sex position, my intimate explorer.
Note from the Author: Any adult, regardless of gender or sexual choice, can benefit from the reverse missionary position, even though it's frequently thought of as a sex position for cis-gendered heterosexual couples.
In addition to being enjoyable, experimenting with different sex positions is a terrific way to liven up your relationship. You've likely tried the missionary sex position a lot, to the point where it's become monotonous. Given that it's among the most popular sex positions, it should come as no surprise. However, are you familiar with the role of a reverse missionary?
Yes, that does exist! What is it? How is it done? And for whom is it ideal? Continue reading to learn all there is to know about this excellent sex position, my explorer.
What is the reverse missionary position?
The creation of novel sex positions and intimate sharing techniques is one of the most imaginative human obsessions. Thus, variations on traditional sex positions, such as missionary.
To put it briefly, the reverse missionary position, also known as the inverted missionary position or the upside-down missionary, is the complete opposite of the standard missionary position. Accordingly, the penetrating partner lies below and the receiving partner rises to the top. Although it sounds much like the Female Superior or Cowgirl positions, this is slightly different. It is also sometimes mistaken for reverse anal or tucked missionary sex position, which is not the same thing.
The receiver lies on their partner, between their lover's legs, and extends their own out directly behind them, instead of sitting on their spouse's lap. The person on top can support their weight by touching their partner's sides. The receiving partner may then be penetrated anally or vaginally by the person on the bottom.
Who is this position best for?
Any couple, regardless of gender or sexual choice, can enjoy the reverse missionary sex position. It provides a more profound connection through complete body contact, eye contact, and kissing, making it ideal for couples who want low-impact sex or a more romantic and intimate position.
Reverse missionary may provide some relief for penetrating partners who might have back pain while performing missionary duties. To reduce strain on the lower back, those with back discomfort should tuck a pillow or piece of sex furniture under their hips or back for more support.
This is the perfect location for G-spot stimulation, which enables shallow targeted penetration. This is an excellent position for clitoral and vulva stimulation because it is also a grinding posture that allows the recipient to press their genitals on the base of their partner's hand, thigh, dildo, or penis.
People with a tilted cervix or those who have pelvic pain during intercourse may find this position to be a helpful alternative due to the shallow thrusting it allows.
The recipient has more control and may feel mentally more active, empowered, and forceful in the reverse missionary position, similar to the cowgirl position. If the penetrating partner is accustomed to playing a more dominant role, this can be a major turn-on because it changes things up.
Put the bottom partner under hand and ankle cuffs, similar to the bed restraints, to further enforce this role reversal. The dominant partner may hold their wrists down to further assert their authority.
This job offers a new perspective on a typical missionary role, and there are many possibilities to develop and explore it together.
Reverse Missionary Variations
You can alter this location by doing a few different things.
- As shown in the above image, the person on the bottom can bend their knees to increase their leverage and improve their thrusting rather than maintaining straight legs. Additionally, this will relieve the strain on their back.
- As the recipient bounces, wiggles, rocks, thrusts their hips, and grinds on top of their partner, the penetrating partner can relax and become more passive.
- On it, put a ring! A cock ring and other sex gadgets are acceptable in this position. The Satisfyer Signet or Fun Factory NŌS are vibrating options that provide vulva owners and women with increased clitoris stimulation.
- The person on top can either arch their back and raise themselves on their arms to let their lover stimulate their breasts and nipples, or they can lie flat against their partner's chest for a deeper connection. Alternately, try some kinky finger clamps.
- In addition to two women or vulva owners, men and other penis owners can also perform this position. In the latter case, either partner may switch positions or use a strap-on, a practice known as the Lesbian Reverse Missionary position. Consider a strapless strap-on, which provides additional stimulation to the penetrator and the receiver.
- Pegging, commonly known as the anal missionary position, is another way to adapt this position for anal intercourse. The receiver may wish to adjust their hip position to allow for anal penetration by moving their hips higher up their partner's body.
- Absence of penetration? Indeed, there are other options as well. You could want to try this position for cuddling, humping, or grinding without having to wear clothes or engage in penetrative sex. It may be ideal for couples who wish to avoid penetrative sex and gives you another sexy choice for intense caressing.
There are so many enjoyable ways to change this position that your creativity is the only restriction!
How to do a reverse missionary
The specifics of performing reverse missionary sex position will now be discussed.
- Warm Up: Getting hot and bothered initially through foreplay and other sorts of stimulation is always a good idea, just like with any other sex position.
- Lube It Up: Before engaging in penetrative intercourse and grinding stimulation, using a sexual lubricant will significantly improve this sex position. These days, lube is more than just an accessory!
- Get Into Position: With their knees bent or their legs straight out, the penetrating partner rests on their back. The receiving spouse then crawls on top, between the legs of their beloved, facing each other and positioned body to body and pelvis to pelvis.
- Find Your Variation: A switch-a-roo, in which the penetrating partner turns over and lifts the receiving partner, is another method to get into this position. This way, the penetrating partner ends up on top. This calls for maneuvering and much upper-body strength for the penetrating partner. The receiving partner can also begin in the cowgirl position, straighten her legs, and then lie on top of her partner. Find the method that works best for you.
- Grind and Humping: While the person on the bottom relaxes and takes pleasure in the encounter, the receiver on top can twist, hump, and grind their hips to get the best stimulation, both internally and outwardly. Along with their companion, they can trust time and move their hips.
- Adding Toys: Feel free to add whatever facilitates your shared sexual enjoyment after that, including sex toys or bondage devices.
Extra Tips for Reverse Missionary
Try stimulating your partner's erogenous zones with your hands, tongue, or even a sex toy. When positioned carefully between two bodies, little vibrators work incredibly well for grinding. Using a butt plug, one or both parties may even try anal play.
You might even try edging to elevate this position to an entirely new level of ecstasy if you decide to grind and prolong the sensation.
More Sex Positions Similar to Reverse Missionary
Since reverse missionary is so fantastic, you might be wondering if we could explore any other comparable roles. The response is, "Yes, my friends are there!"
Rest assured that we won't recommend anything as bizarre as the Reverse Helicopter position, in which the penetrator revolves around while perched above their partner's penis! I believe that one was made up by someone!
Try out these other positions.
High Dive Position
The high dive position is a receiver on top or a lady on top. The reverse missionary position is quite similar to this one, with the exception that the person on top pushes themselves up by holding hands with their partner or by extending their arms and placing their palms on each side of their partner. Hooking their toes on their partner's feet helps the receiver feel even more supported.
Facing Spoon Position
The facing spoon position is another extremely private face-to-face posture. This one is straightforward and laid back. Face to face, you both rest on your sides. The donor can penetrate the recipient by having them saddle their top leg over their lover's thigh or lift it slightly.
Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl
Depending on the gender, the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are two of the most well-liked receiver-on-top positions (also known as rider, cowboy, or woman-on-top positions). The receiver has greater control and ability to stimulate the clitoris and G-spot in these positions, which makes them excellent. Additionally, these positions are pretty powerful for someone who is accustomed to having more passive sex.
Tabletop Position
You will adore the tabletop position if you enjoy cowgirl. As the name suggests, the receiver sits with their butt as close to the edge as possible on a tabletop or counter (be sure it's sturdy!). After that, the penetrating partner enters the receiving partner while facing them directly. The receiver can then arch their back, place their ankles on their spouse's shoulders, embrace their lover tightly, or wrap their legs around their waist. This position can even be modified for oral sex. Everything is fine!
The Bottom Line
By adding D/s role-playing scenarios and changing up the sexual role, experimenting with reverse missionary may be pretty thrilling. Additionally, it's a terrific position that lets the person on top be caressed and fondled by the penetrating partner, or person on the bottom.
That's it, daring adventurer! Even though it could seem difficult, reverse missionary is relatively easy to adapt; therefore, it should be on your list of desired sex positions.
Play, try new things, and enjoy yourself!
