Fruitful Fellatio: How to Give and Get at the Same Time

Getting as much back as you give is the secret to having fantastic oral sex.

I never liked having oral sex with 69. There is a place for multitasking in life. Still, when it comes to sex, I would prefer to be able to fully experience the delightful sensation of one activity before switching to another. It's just me. Furthermore, you have every right to suck cock for your enjoyment. I strongly advise doing it precisely for that reason if you're going to suck cock. The good news is that the cock's owner will probably like it, too, if you do it for your enjoyment. Yes, getting back as much as you give is the secret to having fantastic oral sex. (In addition, you should be aware that this post is written from the perspective of a heteroflexible cis woman.)

Which jobs are the best for having that blow job and enjoying every second of it? I have some advice.

Get Off on Your Sexy Self

Get off on your sexy self and get off on your sexy self are my two finest recommendations for having the most fantastic oral sex experience. Let me clarify. Assume for a moment that I am wearing a dress so short that my panties show through it when my dress comes up over my ass when I get on my knees and begin spreading my legs, along with gogo boots and a push-up bra. For both my lover and me, that is hot. I can't help but look up at him as I'm going all out on his cock to see the joy on his face and to see him looking down at me. Even though I'm working hard, licking up and down the shaft and taking him completely in my mouth, I'm also thinking about how he sees me. This makes me want to please him even more and makes me hotter. This is a win-win scenario.

However, you can get off as well. Have him lie on his back in bed, completely open and at ease. After that, you can wrap your thighs around his lower leg and lie down next to him. You can establish a rhythm here by using your mouth and his hips to move in your direction. When you feel the need, clench your thighs and press your clit against his shin bone. You're all set as long as he doesn't mind a wet mark on his leg, which I doubt he would, considering that his cock is in your mouth.

Relish in the Sensations of Giving

Giving is receiving, but when it comes to oral sex, we frequently become so preoccupied with our partners that we lose sight of our own emotions. It's unfortunate since it could feel incredibly lovely. Because of the abundance of nerve endings in our lips, we have many opportunities to experience powerful surges of pleasure. Have you ever simply allowed cock meat to kiss you? Feel the smooth skin against your lips when you close your eyes. Listen to his aroma for a moment. Take your time, even though you might be itching to bring that entire cock inside and suck with every cell in your body. The most sensitive area of the penis is the head. Before you have your deep throat moment, give your lips and tongue some time to explore it.

Regardless of the route you choose, spend some time concentrating on the sensuality of the experience and how touching him makes you feel. Seek out touches that make you happy and enjoy the experience.

Consider Control

There are other things to think about. He has greater control over the depth of penetration when you are kneeling, and he is standing. This relinquishment of authority could be a turn-on.

You have more control while he's sitting or lying down. That might be a turn-on for you.

You can also use your hands at the base of the penis to manipulate depth and give him more stimulation. You may use the flavored lube or coconut oil to make it slippery.

Remember to play ball as well. Those are sensitive testicles. Therefore, play intentionally rather than rough (unless asked to). You can lick and suck them, cup them, gently stroke them, and possibly put them entirely in your mouth. You can let your tongue move over the perineum and, if you're both feeling it, a little analingus, depending on how comfortable your boyfriend is with other body parts.

Don't Be Afraid to Get Messy

I discovered the secret of spit the first time I witnessed a woman give birth to a man. He slumped back against the couch and moaned while she stayed down there for a long, her face buried in his lap. I have to admit that my initial impression of her was that she looked like a hot mess when she eventually came up for air. since she did. Her long hair was matted and damp to the side of her face. I believed he had arrived. Everything was drenched in moisture. But when I took a closer look at what she was doing, I saw that she was using saliva to keep things slippery and working it up in her mouth. He was ecstatic when she made her lubrication.

These are simply a few suggestions; the most crucial is to take your sweet time. We already move too quickly through life. If you indulge, you'll have more time to discover other things that make you happy. Additionally, you will be able to give your companion your best effort when fellatio is enjoyable for you.