How Erotic Hypnosis Can Improve Your Sex Life
Despite the abundance of YouTube videos, how-to books, and passionate practitioners worldwide, why are the pleasures of erotic hypnosis still a best-kept sexual secret? Some people are still cautious or anxious about sexual hypnosis even though basic techniques are easy to master and the benefits can be felt right away.
I can tell you this since I am an expert in the field. People who are already intimate have very little reason to be concerned about the recreational application of romantic, affectional, and overtly erotic hypnosis. Exercise common sense, establish agreements around boundaries and consent, and receive basic training. The final step is the most crucial. You should learn from an experienced practitioner, even if a lot of literature online claims to teach these skills.
After you've dedicated some time to practice, you can start exploring intriguing forms of imagination, sensation, and/or power play, either by yourself or with one or more willing partners. You don't need to be together to enjoy this excellent practice!
How erotic hypnosis works
Simply put, it begins when one of you or your partner enters a trance, a slower, more relaxed condition of the brain waves. To get the hypnotic subject to relax even more, you only need to use words (spoken or text), slower breathing, and occasionally a light touch, such as applying pressure to the knees or shoulder for a short moment. The hypnotist can then offer more direct, provocative suggestions that delve into imaginations, evoke enticing bodily sensations, establish or strengthen power dynamics, and much more!
It's crucial to begin erotic hypnosis gradually. Start by using simple hypnosis techniques that aren't related to evoking sexual feelings. A few basic methods to induce physical sensations or fantasies: one or two deepening techniques (which can be as easy as counting down from ten to one), a trustworthy induction technique (which creates a relaxed state), and a method to invite your partner back to a normal state of awareness, also known as emergence, are all things you should learn.
Avoid attempting to induce a hypnotically orgasmic orgasm from your partner during your first session, as this could lead to hypo-performance anxiety. While the hypnotist becomes accustomed to reading scripts out loud and making suggestions, it helps the individual in the hypnotic subject role to act as though they are being hypnotized. For this to work, both of you must be at ease.
How erotic hypnosis can improve your sex life
Here are five strategies to enhance your sex life if you're interested in learning more about erotic hypnosis!
Getting in the right headspace
Imagine how wonderful it would be to close your eyes and hear your partner say gentle, loving words of gratitude and compassion for five minutes. These words would strengthen your link and provide emotional security, and there would be lots of affirmations that would boost your ego. That sounds fantastic.
Ask your lover to treat you to a lengthy, calming, progressive relaxation induction that progressively transitions into sensuous, stimulating imagery if your day has been challenging and you're too stressed even to consider having sex. This can be as easy as reading a script (many are available online), but you can improvise after you better understand fundamental hypnotic techniques.
With your partner's express consent, of course, this method can also serve as a prelude to helping them overcome their sexual inhibitions or urging them to try something new.
Many of the 225 erotic hypnosis users I polled ten years ago included their own opinions in their answers. Several people commented on the intimacy and bonding that came from erotic hypnosis, as well as the advantages of being deeply relaxed before engaging in additional sexual activities.
Think about sharing a regular practice like this, even if you don't do anything else with hypnosis.
Getting in the mood
Your parasympathetic neural system must remain positive for you to become aroused and maintain that sensation. Your sympathetic nervous system goes into overdrive when you're about to experience an orgasm, at least.
To do this, use a 4-count breathing exercise in conjunction with hypnotic relaxation techniques to boost sexual confidence and eliminate performance anxiety. Hypnosis can indeed help you block out self-conscious thoughts and enter a more sensual, profound mood.
Hypnotic scripts work well for this, although it's preferable to create your own or modify an existing script's language. Talk to your hypnotic partner about phrases, pictures, and scenarios you enjoy, then add them to your script for relaxation and sensuality.
Getting in the body
Simply listening to your lover's recommendations and giving into the strength of both your and their imagination might cause you to become more sensually aware and receptive when you're "enthralled." Work together to develop a hypnosis script that arouses sensuality and desire with your hypnotic partner. Your bodies will react on their own.
According to one respondent to my poll, "Oh my god, I've never been this wet before!" was said by a hypnotic partner.
Touch and hypnosis are also powerful combinations. Combinations of written words, sign language, visual cues, and touch can create sexy hypnotic experiences when one or both partners are deaf or hard of hearing. The most popular hypnosis technique is spoken word, though it's not required.
Proponents of erotic hypnosis frequently cite the method's exceptional capacity to help people connect with their bodies and trigger sexual reactions in those bodies.
Getting hot and bothered
Sensual and sexual language can undoubtedly be incorporated into your induction and deepening approaches, interspersed with suggestions for general relaxation. However, what I call "the heart of the session" is where you will most enjoy yourself. The main components of erotic arousal that are especially enjoyable for you and your partner will be the emphasis of this section. And inquire if you're unsure of what those are!
Examples of ideas include increasing or diminishing particular feelings, such as pressure, heaviness, coolness, warmth, and tingling, and redistributing them across the body. Consider how it could feel to have your hand start to tingle more intensely before the sensation spreads to your genitalia. With explicit, enthusiastic agreement, of course, you can also fabricate or permit dream scenarios as they emerge, envision attempting novel sexual practices, and/or produce hypnotic settings that enhance BDSM role play, including dominance and mind control.
You can also make yourself or your spouse more hungry and desirous of having sex.
Regarding hypnotic orgasms, many skilled practitioners utilize hypnosis to induce or regulate orgasms. However, it takes some practice to get there. One approach to learning is building confidence in your (or your partner's) ability to experience bodily sensations by first producing and feeling other feelings, such as tingling, hot, cold, and heavy.
When I tell you, you can't help but cum because you feel so tingly and extremely excited in your clitoris, exactly like when you get a tingly sensation in the palm of your hand.
However, you may generate, edge, or damage orgasms using a variety of hypnotic orgasm techniques. Try different methods until you and your partner(s) find ones that work.
One can enjoy erotic hypnosis alone, without physical contact, or in a variety of ways whilst engaging in physical sex.
Getting kinky and then some
Although it may sound a little weird, erotic hypnotists frequently enjoy investigating misconceptions about hypnosis. Mind control and hypno-domination games like Robot Dolly may fall under this category. D/s may use hypnosis to enhance their feelings of submission. If this seems unsettling, keep in mind that an erotic hypnosis session should be a prearranged scene, similar to any other kinky play and that you are free to refuse anything you don't want.
You and your partner or partners can use hypnosis to add a new depth to your existing pleasures or envision and practice something you may wish to try. You don't have to spend a dollar on toys and equipment to construct rich and crazy dream settings. Hypnosis can also be used to "experience" and envision the impossible, a technique known as hypno-bondage.
Try combining hypnosis with tantric exercises and a variety of other erotic pursuits for a true rush.
But there's more
People with physical disabilities and/or chronic illnesses that may make some sexual acts challenging can benefit significantly from erotic hypnosis because it involves using your imagination. You can develop creative workarounds with erotic hypnosis that take your mind and your sexual reactions to places where your body might not physically follow.
Long-distance couples can benefit significantly from erotic hypnosis, which helps them stay connected and intimate and have regular sex. You can use text messages, video calls, and phone conversations to hypnotize your companions or yourself.
Getting started with erotic hypnosis
To incorporate hypnosis into your romantic relationship or relationships, follow these simple steps:
- Before the session, always plan with your partner and obtain their approval for any changes.
- Unless you've been doing this for a while and are both at ease with each other's fetishes, desires, etc., don't add surprises to your prearranged scripts. Nevertheless, obtain permission ahead of time for surprises.
- Regularly engage in ego-boosting, affectionate interactions with your mate.
- Remember to emphasize your partner's attractiveness and sexiness while taking turns expressing your love, gratitude, and support.
- Before intimacy, schedule sessions to reduce stress and promote relaxation.
- Construct unique, unforgettable erotic hypnosis experiences.
- Discuss what works and what does not. Encourage your partner's and your own learning. Instead of making it a chore, let it be a shared exploration.
- After an erotic hypnosis session, don't forget to check in and take care of yourself.
- Lastly, pay attention if your partner declines. Instead, practice erotic self-hypnosis.
Books, one-on-one instruction from an experienced practitioner, and erotic hypnosis conferences and workshops are some of the finest ways to learn and expand your talents, but nothing can replace consistent practice. But watch out for YouTube videos. There is a lot of false information that you might not initially be aware of.
Enjoy captivating your lover, or allow yourself to be captivated. You may discover that a whole new world of sexual pleasures becomes available to you and your partner.
