Big Love: Sex on the Plus Side

For plus-sized folks, having sex isn't always simple, but it may still be enjoyable! Furniture for sex can be helpful.

I am an unrepentant, attractive woman who weighs 300 pounds, has a deliciously curvy apple-shaped ass, large, voluptuous breasts, and hips that are 60 inches. My body is strong, attractive, and in good health. I have a ton of sex with the man who adores every inch of me to celebrate it.

Our sexual life is incredible, particularly the foreplay. We only have a few possibilities for positions because of my larger stature. For example, I lay flat on my left side for any penetration and on my back for oral. You know, trying different positions isn't as simple as it seems when you're huge like me, and it may seriously undermine a girl's confidence and desire. (Are you concerned about your weight? Perhaps you ought to get it on. Check out How to Have Amazing Intercourse at Any Size.

Dealing With Sexual Limitations

I've highlighted some of the sexual boundaries I encounter whenever I try to have sex. First, postures like cowgirl and doggy style—which are, incidentally, my all-time favorites—put a lot of strain on my wrists and knees. I can't move and thrust 300 pounds with the Doggy's downward angle, especially when I'm trying to balance on my hands and knees. A similar issue arises with cowgirls: they never have enough power to ride their partners. Our attempts usually result in rug burns on my knees.

While I'm having oral intercourse, I experience another position restriction. My legs can't expand out past a certain point due to my thighs' structure and my lack of hip flexibility, which strains my lower back. I can't open my smorgasbord of wonderful treats for him to eat because of this. And then there's my stomach. Even I have trouble reaching my vagina because it crosses over my pelvis. Two hands are needed for the two-part work of solo play:

One to remove the excess fat and the other to handle the enjoyment.

If those problems weren't tricky enough, I have what some might call a "plus-sized pussy." This is because fat women generally have more padding around their labia and pubis, which makes it difficult to navigate toward the clit. I can't see my partner's delightfully beautiful penis.

All of these obstacles and more leave me frustrated and disappointed.

Please understand that I'm not complaining about my size. But sometimes, the amount of pillow rigging I have to do to prop my ass up dampens the joy of sex. When I'm in a comfortable position, the excitement is over, sweetie. Is it so inappropriate for me to request more creative roles? Geez! I don't want to cut corners on my fantasies just because I'm voluptuous. I believe it's reasonable to want to have sex the way my "porn side" perceives it, which is by switching positions constantly. How can I do that? Sex furniture turned out to be the solution.

Spicing Up My Sex Life

My partner and I decided to get a Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo to spice things up and boost my sexual confidence. The original size probably would have worked for us both, but I'm glad we went with the "plus size" version because it gives us more room to play without me feeling like I'm going to roll off the edge. After consulting the Liberator Position Guide, we chose a conservative position that could enhance oral sex without requiring a lot of maneuvering. The outcome? Freakin' amazing!

For some people, introducing the Ramp and Wedge is an entirely new experience, so I strongly advise familiarizing yourself with the product before utilizing it for intercourse. I felt like my body was on exhibit when I first reacted to lying back on the Ramp. Although it took some time to adjust to the height and angle, the Ramp's width provided me with a safe enough landscape. The Wedge raised my hips and leveled the playing field after we had it positioned beneath my lower back. Together, the two components gave my weight a sturdy yet cushioned platform that reduced strain on my hips and lower back. We just went for it because we felt secure and at ease. I was supremely propped upon on my stage, and he was off the bed and standing for our first-ever oral sex session.

I may change the position and get the ideal elevation thanks to the Ramp. I may bring my knees against my chest or bend and spread them. I can spread my thighs wider and have much more hip flexibility now that the Wedge is supporting my lower back. Some incredible consequences result from the increased flexibility and agility. I can also reach my arms farther because of the tilted pitch of my upper and lower halves. I can't wait to put him between my legs and lead him to the pleasure zone—or watch if I feel like it.

Thanks to the Wedge/Ramp Combo, our once-average oral sex encounters have swiftly transformed into something remarkable after a few successful attempts. How "liberating" it is to stop playing a supporting role in our romantic relationships and to participate in the rhythm of sex altogether. The best part is that I demonstrate my thrusting, grinding, and moving body as he displays his incredible oral skill set. Liberator has helped us finish with greater vigor and enthusiasm rather than limping to the finish line.

We're all in and prepared to learn the Doggy's art!