A Public Affair: How to Wear Butt Plugs in Public

Butt plug use is already a delightful experience. After all, butt plugs are made especially to stimulate the delicate nerve endings in your rectum and anus.

Your body does, of course, adjust to the sensation after using them for some time. You would eventually want to move things up a notch to rekindle the enjoyable spark you once had.

How else can it accomplish that with a toy with such a basic purpose? Why not make use of them in public, then?

Yes, we know that not everyone is cut out for that level of excitement. But believe us, there isn't much to it, and you should try it at least once.

Why Wear a Butt Plug in Public?

The first thing that undoubtedly springs to mind when considering wearing a sex toy in public is "Why?"

Well, here are a few explanations.

It's Thrilling

There is undoubtedly a stigma associated with having sex in public. Although it's not for everyone, most people who have done it would likely agree that it's erotic.

Engaging in such activities in public and outdoors is undoubtedly the sweetest of the forbidden fruits. It makes no difference if you're using a sex toy on a bus or subway train without anyone noticing or if you're having sex in a secret spot in the park.

It's something that many people can relate to, and you may feel the same way.

Anal Training

Anal training is another justification for wearing a butt plug for extended periods in public. There are numerous muscles in your anus, and like any muscle, you can train them to accomplish specific objectives.

In this situation, you would want your anus to be capable of absorbing larger items, such as a dildo, a larger butt plug, or even a penis.

You must wear them for hours at a time for anal training to be practical, and you may not always be able to stay at home during that time. Many people wear butt plugs in public while going about their daily lives to save time.

Choosing the Right Butt Plug for the Job

If you've read thus far, you've most likely concluded that you might want to try wearing a butt plug in public. However, you're also presumably wondering what kind of butt plug is appropriate for public use.

No more wondering, then. 

Size

Comfort is the most crucial factor to take into account. After all, you'll be wearing your butt plug for hours on end, so you want a toy that you might not even notice you're wearing it.

First, the size. Purchase a butt plug that is slightly smaller than the one you typically wear.

As previously said, your anus is essentially a muscle, and muscles do experience weariness. Yes, you can have sex while wearing a thick monster that is six inches in diameter. However, you probably can't keep that to yourself for two to three hours at a time.

Begin with tiny butt plugs and gradually increase their size.

Material

The next step would be to examine the content. Wearing something stiff, like glass or metal, is much less forgiving than a softer, more flexible material, like silicone.

Harder materials might quickly wear you out since they put too much strain on your sphincter muscles. Additionally, silicone is much lighter than glass, which may make the situation more forgiving.

Design

Finally, you should consider the kind of butt plug you wish to wear. There are many different types of butt plugs available, including automatic anal vibrators, spiky plugs, and training plugs, which may surprise you.

Here, it's essential to start small. If you're not an expert, avoid using any butt plugs that are inflatable, spiky, or ribbed.

Select the smaller plugs found in anal training kits or the narrower butt plugs. You don't want too many bells and whistles to overwhelm your butt.

How to Wear a Butt Plug in Public

Do a Bit of Practice

Before attempting to wear a butt plug in public, you should first practice at home. You should only wear a butt plug in public if you are confident wearing one at home.

Since you already know what to expect with your butt plug, this is to ensure that you won't find yourself in unfamiliar scenarios.

Therefore, please familiarize yourself with your toys at home before playing with them.

Warm-up

Being warmed up is another requirement before you can begin wearing your toy. Before donning your butt plug, make sure you are sufficiently aroused.

The dynamic created by wearing a sex toy in public is quite different from what you are accustomed to at home. Therefore, warming up before going outside will help you get into the correct frame of mind and avoid encountering those issues later.

Do whatever it takes to get yourself in the right frame of mind and suitably aroused before putting in your butt plug. This may include watching porn or stimulating yourself a little.

Lube Up

Now that you're prepared to bring your toy in, it's time to lubricate up. Despite how wonderful it feels to be penetrated, your anus is made to expel waste, not to absorb foreign items.

Since your asshole doesn't naturally create lubricant like the vagina does, pushing anything into it might cause ripping and, ultimately, infection.

Thus, apply lubricant liberally. Both your butt plug and your asshole should have a good amount on them.

We advise you to use lubricant with a silicone base because it lasts longer and doesn't cause your rectum to feel damp.

Water-based lubricants are the most excellent option because silicone-based lubricants don't function well with silicone devices. Water-based lubes have the drawback of evaporating quickly, which means you'll need to reapply them as you travel.

Additionally, some people may find water-based lubricants uncomfortable due to their peculiar "wet" feeling. Although oil-based lubrication lasts far longer than water-based lube, we do not advise using it because it feels greasy inside.

Insert and hold it

You can safely insert your preferred butt plug once you've lubricated yourself thoroughly. Take your time and be as comfortable as you can while doing this.

Take it out immediately and try again in a few minutes if you experience discomfort during the insertion process. If the soreness persists, try again another day, or if it's severe enough, see your doctor.

Aftercare

Make careful to clean up after yourself after using your toy in public or when you're ready to take it out.

Be careful only to use clean toys and wash yours appropriately to stop the transmission of germs.

Do whatever you need to do to relax after cleaning your toy. You might ask for anal intercourse, watch a movie, snuggle with your spouse, or even masturbate. During your debriefing, unwind and reflect on the day's happenings.

Tips

Here are some things to know if you're wearing butt plugs in public for the first time or that may make the experience easier. 

• Don't forget to include a bottle of lubrication. If you wear your butt plug in public, a lot of things could go wrong. You may need to take a quick pause, your lubrication may dry up, or you may need to urinate. Having a tube of lubricant on hand is helpful if you need to take your toy out and put it back in or reapply the lube.
• It should not be worn all day. Despite the temptation, wearing your toy all day is never a good idea. Later on, this may lead to much discomfort or even harm. Naturally, that doesn't imply it's impossible, but you must work for it. Begin by wearing your toy for one to two hours at a time, then gradually extend that period by thirty to one hour.
• Nobody would know the difference. You may feel like everyone is watching you if this is your first time wearing your butt plug in public. Do not be concerned. No one is aware. You should be alright if you act naturally.
• Use only plugs that have been specially designed. Avoid sticking strange items in your butt and, worse, leaving them there for hours at a time. That is an excellent method of self-harm.
• The entire encounter could become more challenging than necessary if you fight against that feeling. Therefore, don't battle your plug and just rest.
• Enjoy yourself. The most crucial piece of advice. It is an erotic and unusual feeling to wear a toy in public. Don't forget to have fun.